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[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

The comic character is doing it "right" by not making it the other guy's problem.

Part of the problem is that there's a gray area on this discussion and easy to find yourself on either side.

On the one side, "my hand has been crushed and I need immediate medical attention" is something other people need to respect. And "I can't help you with both hands because one of them is crushed" is something other people need to respect. And "my chronic hand pain makes me grumpy", too.

On the other, if you're not talking to a doctor or asking for help getting to a doctor, starting every conversation with "My hand hurts" begs the question "what do you want me to do about it?" And if every request to socialize is met with "Can't do anything hand hurts", eventually you stop getting calls.

So what's the fair middle ground? Hard to say and varies heavily by audience. But people do love to paint on the extreme ends without addressing the mushy middle.

[–] towerful@programming.dev 3 points 1 year ago

Yeh, mental health issues are just health issues.
It took me a while to realise that. A broken brain (whether Alzheimer's, chronic depression or whatever) is just like a broken leg (or broken arm, or chronic back pain or whatever).

You don't ask someone with a broken leg or chronic back pain to help you move house.
I guess it's easier to tell when someone has a physical injury, which probably removes some of the stigma around talking about it.

[–] samus12345@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

By "guy in the comic" I meant the original comic I posted. The one you posted comes off as mean to me. It's great that "not great" guy isn't doing badly enough that he feels the need to talk about his problems and he even acknowledges that he's considering the other guy's feelings, while the other guy comes off as, "Phew, I was just making small talk and don't actually care how you're doing."

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

the other guy comes off as, β€œPhew, I was just making small talk and don’t actually care how you’re doing.”

What if the other guy is also depressed or otherwise dealing with his own shit and just looking for pleasant socialization rather than emotional baggage carrying?

Is it possible for two people to enjoy each other's company without airing all their dirty laundry on each other?

[–] samus12345@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Then he could say, "I'm sorry to hear that you're not doing great. I hope things get better!"

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That wouldn't make for a pithy comic punchline