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Cyanide & Happiness

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Hello fellow Cyanide and Happiness fans!

Cyanide & Happiness (C&H) is a webcomic created by Rob DenBleyker, Kris Wilson, Dave McElfatrick and Matt Melvin. The comic has been running since 2005 and is published on the website explosm.net along with animated shorts in the same style. Matt Melvin left C&H in 2014, and several other people have contributed to the comic and to the animated shorts

Read more: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cyanide_%26_Happiness

Hope you enjoy and feel free to contribute to the community with art, media, cool stuff about the authors, tattoos, toys and anything else, as long it’s Cyanide & Happiness related!

History

@MrSebSin@sh.itjust.works started this community and wrote:

About this community and how I post the comics… Many moons ago, I would ask my Dad to save the newspaper for me everyday so I could read my favorite comic strips. Of course these days you can read your favorite comics online instead of a newspaper, but I love the nostalgia of reading the daily comics. Anyway, one of my favorite current comics is Cyanide and Happiness and I will be posting the daily release from their website (https://explosm.net/) and a an extra or two randoms.

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All comics posted are freely available online. In no way is the poster claiming ownership, copyright or anything else. This is a not for profit community, we just want to enjoy our comics, thank you.

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[–] glimse@lemmy.world 7 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Your attempts to psychoanalyze me are falling flat when this is a conversation I've had dozens of times with both men and women. I'm an art school graduate who took a genders studies class that literally discussed the neutralization of vocatives like dude and man

You're stuck on the idea that I go around calling everyone dude when I never said that. Are you going around saying "thanks, buddy" to every cashier? Didn't think so.

Context, tone, and relationships matter. I'm pretty sure if I tripped and instinctually said "thanks dude" or "thanks man" when a trans woman helped me up, it'd be pretty obvious I'm not being a chud. If I said it with a scowl, that'd be a different story

[–] Fedegenerate@fedinsfw.app -1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago) (1 children)

I'm just applying your idea that 'dude' is gender neutral to the world we live in. It isn't you agreed it isn't, except in this one specific context.

Just like the 'dude is gender neutral' homophobic guys get upset when I ask how many dude they've had sex with, you're doing the same thing. Sometimes it's fun

[–] glimse@lemmy.world 4 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

You're being weird about what was intended to be an uplifting comment about the malleability of language.

Dude was originally an insult to men. Guess we can't call men dudes anymore either, huh?

[–] Fedegenerate@fedinsfw.app -1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago) (1 children)

I agreed it was malleable. You see how I mentioned us using he/him as a gender neutral term, and then stopped because it was obviously gendered? Dude is also obviously gendered.

Dude was originally an insult to men. Guess we can’t call men dudes anymore either, huh?

Ok? I'd like the etymology of dude though. What makes you think I'd go to bat for using the word dude? But men can reclaim words used to insult them if they want, I've been consistent on that.

[–] glimse@lemmy.world 3 points 58 minutes ago (1 children)

Pretty sure you've been trying to trap me in some kind of a gotcha but ok.

Be a dude or don't, I don't care. It'd wouldn't be very dudelike of me to judge you either way

[–] Fedegenerate@fedinsfw.app 1 points 53 minutes ago (1 children)

Nah, just trying to get you to introspect. Its hard to do, ask me how I know.

Dude is obviously gendered right? We both agreed. You have argued that in one context it isn't. Similar to how he/him was argued to be gender neutral for instruction/operator manuals, but he/him is uncontroversially understood to be gendered now. We can introspect, and learn or dig in and have out ideas reflected back at us.

[–] Feathercrown@lemmy.world 1 points 33 minutes ago (1 children)

You can encourage someone to introspect or rethink their opinions but you cannot expect them to always reach the same conclusions that you have.

[–] Fedegenerate@fedinsfw.app 1 points 5 minutes ago

I agree. Encouraging someone to introspect and rethink is better than not. All I can do is present that we've learned this lesson before with he/him as a default term and reflect their own ideas back to them.