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That hasn't really been my experience. Lemmy seems nicer on the surface because most of the userbase is ideologically aligned, so conflict is less likely. But once you make the wrong noises about something, plenty of people show up ready to prove just how mean and horrible they can actually be.
Also, on Reddit I never had anyone follow me around trying to cause reputational damage by spreading false accusations about me.
We have the same problems reddit does. It’s just that it’s a smaller userbase and downvoted comments don’t disappear here like they get pushed down on reddit. So you don’t get downvoted as much, but your controversial or unpopular take remains visible for opposing opinions to attack. And yeah, there are mini-brigades here too. Make a comment about a subject that has importance to a particular instance and you get insta-downvoted multiple times, but your post will probably recover as the rest of the groups view the conversation.
This is true. The fediverse is unpleasant in occasionally different ways but is unpleasant. Part of it is human psychology that's hard to avoid (not that people are trying particularly hard), and then it's amplified by the demographics here possibly being somehow even worse at the whole "alternate view points" thing than Reddit is - which I seriously would not have thought possible, but here we are.
Maybe if the goal was making "reddit but less fuckfaced", it was a mistake to settle on the rather shoddy work of a bunch of extraordinarily angry tankies (possibly false flag although it's hard to separate one kind of dipshit from another kind of dipshit pretending to be the first kind of dipshit), and/or extraordinarily angry whatever else these... people... are - I'm sure spelling it out would be some kind of -ist, and whoo boy - no, sorry, that's probably sexist, damn. No, sorry, that's probably religious persecution, shit. No, sorry, ableism again because what if people have colostomies. Oh sorry, "colostomy" is Greek derived so probably also offensive to someone. And suggesting that is probably also possible to frame as offensive somehow, if one really puts one's alleged mind to it.
Instead of being banned arbitrarily from a sub because some shithead didn't like you criticizing Trump, you'll be banned arbitrarily from an entire instances because people are actively hunting for excuses to be offended, trolling, or just wildly out of touch with reality.
"I don't necessarily think Marxist-Len-" clearly fascist. Banned.
"Hey, that's crazy, man" - banned. That's ableism, don't'y'know.
"Some people get tricked into voting against their better int-" can't even tell what you were referring to, but banned anyway, just in case. Or because voting is fascist, or some other scintillatingly intelligent reasoning.
"Sometimes you can't get away from Windows-" fascist corporate something or other, banned.
"Sometimes people get offended, or pretend to, and it doesn't automatically make them righ-" (waiting to see how this one pans out, actually :P)
Getting a break from the (overt) right wingers is jolly nice, actually. The depressing upshot, though, is that it turns out a lot of the psychology is pretty similar anyway. The very people whining the loudest about the Reddit Gestapo get over here and immediately start the Lemmy KGB, but it's okay because their views are the right ones. Even though one of the main guys is still a blatant transphobic asshole, which is frankly pretty suggestive of something in this bastion of hyper zealous... "tolerance".
All to enjoy much less and shittier content... maybe it isn't 100% worth it, which makes the FV's hysterical self-congratulatory attitude pretty funny. Hooray, we have a deeply flawed and impractical, gimmicky bullshit architecture, thought up by someone who drinks Russian and Chinese and North-Korean (etc) flavor-aid! You even get different excuses when some dipshit abuses the moderation system, woohoo! This is like, the best thing since we ran over those protesters at Tiananmen square!
frankly at this point i just assume that anyone who is really obviously being stupidly aggressive isn't a real person, it's probably just a bot meant to push people apart.
I've experienced it on both, but it was much more toxic and persistent on reddit in my experience
This is true. Linux isn’t my platform of choice, and the “passion” of the responses that provokes is remarkable.
Why would you use your real name or reveal any information about you here or on Reddit anyway unless you have to?
I don't. That's what makes it even more bizzare. I don't get what they have to gain from trying to stain an anonymous account.
Yeah ive been jumped on hard here for referring to a she as a he when she was referred to as "CEO of x company".
fwiw i would not assume those are real complaints, it's wholly possible that those are just bots trying to polarize people.
I mean...that's just Tuesday on the internet in 2026. Sadly.
"Wrong noises" is a good framing. But it can be good too, in enforcing careful posting hygiene (ala "belt and suspenders" - cross your t's and dot you i's).
It's sad that we have to assume defensive posture as s.o.p...but yeah, here we are.
To say it in the language of my people: shit's fucked.
PS: I hope you got squared away ok, cause that cyberstalking thing sounds all manner of bullshit.
Nah, they're still on it - and considering how much you've been discussing AI here too, it's more than likely you've run into them as well.
Being careful with your words helps to some extent, but then there are people like this who don't really care what you actually say. If they perceive you to be on the wrong side of an issue they care deeply about, they slap this cartoon-villain stereotype on you and treat it as fact. It's not about what you said - it's about who they think says those kinds of things. It's intentional misinterpretation and ad hominems all the way down. No point even trying to engage with their insane troll logic.
Oh, I had my run in with anti-ai folks already. Probably we're talking about the same "lobster", non?
Wrt insane troll logic: I have on old friend who made a good distinction. "The difference between a glutton for punishment and a gourmand for punishment is that the latter can eat garbage and transmute it into energy."
I dunno if he was right, but it does remind me to go outside, touch grass and wrestle with my kids from time to time.