Butter
It's gonna get messy! Girls told me my mind will be blown!
Ding ding ding!
I'm in similar -ish...
Wife who is immature mentally and cheated for 25 years got called out. Now stays simply because she isn't financially responsible and wouldn't survive on her own. My extended family is now blocked from contact after my mother croaked, so they no longer influence her. Quote my mother "I wanted a daughter instead of you"... Her second husband literally was one of the guys, set up by my mother.
Wife lives in separate bedroom. Not a romantic partner.
Girlfriends (2) live in other part of house with me. They are platonically connected to each other, and the 3 of us fully integrated.
While there's tension with the wife still occasionally, the original arrangement was due to being stuck where not only would she have likely wound up homeless, it would have also made me and our kid homeless too. Now kid is adult, and things are mostly stable so no major changes unless the wife can become financially stable. If to when that's not an issue, we will separate amicably.
Preconceived notions of "that will harm the kid!" Etc have all been amazingly strong baselines for identifying and stopping contact with toxic people who use labels instead of just asking the kid how they feel about it.
We have never tried to have the kid call anyone else "Mom". Weird how far that one goes.
As today is my 45th birthday, I look forward to my mistress showing up as described. My girlfriends will probably have a problem.
My wife likely, also, but she has no part in this adventure.
Gonna be a fun day I hope!
Oof, was not aware. Appreciate the heads up.
I use Obtainium to perform the install and update directly. Might be of use if the delay with Google annoys you too.
You then just put the GitHub link into it and it handles the rest.
Do it coward!
Ideally sooner, but I support this. Hells yeah AOC!
..... Fuck!
Art style has some Brute propaganda 1990s style going. Fitting. I dig it.