solomon42069

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago)

I mean, if only gay guys are offering... why be picky? ;p

Girls have done things to me when I was in the mood and didn't say no...

I'm 100% gay and find the V gross, but sometimes you have a spare $20 and just want that massage to end happily before going back to the office...

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I can relate to so much of what you're saying!

If you're having issues remembering, especially the vastness of tangential thoughts and references needed to do the good stuff you're doing - I strongly suggest writing things down in a diary.

I'm a programmer and keep everything in text files in folders, and I use VSCode to edit and navigate it. It's saved to version control so I never lose anything. I've got work logs and notes going back decades. Some people prefer physical diaries ofc.

[–] [email protected] 46 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (3 children)

I was on all the gay apps plus Tinder, looking for even one decent conversation let alone a date. Bummed out hearing my housemates have loud sex all the time.

Eventually I decided to loosen my standards a little and changed the Tinder age range from 25-30 to 18-45. The next day I went on a date with the younger gentleman of 23 (I was 29 btw) and now we're happily settled down with two dogs and a cat.

So moral of the story is - if you can't get a date, review your preferences. You never know what you might be missing for no good reason.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Having all my teeth.

[–] [email protected] 45 points 1 week ago

I don't blame the historians anymore, I blame the societies they published their work in.

Imagine telling Victorian era people about South East Asian queerness. They'd have you hanged just for describing what you saw.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

You can get a soil moisture meter for $12.99 on Amazon.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Yes and a parking infraction is the same as a hit and run because they both happened on the road with cars. What a nonsense bunch of words you put up there as wisdom lmao.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 week ago (3 children)

The trick with humour is it has to not be as dry as my mother's cunt.

At least give us a "/s" so there's no doubt bro.

[–] [email protected] 42 points 1 week ago

Well I'm a pervert, and that's a hard disagree from me. Very hard.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

In the late 1990s in Australia we had similar attempts to promote domestic products in the supermarket. As a kid at the time I questioned why we'd buy local when global brands were higher quality and more familiar to me, especially as I've lived in Europe and Asia.

For me personally - part of the issue with nationalism movements promoting domestic production that is that they are often tied with racism/xenophobia and are often used as a ruse by some greedy person to promote their own business to the local market. They get people angry which creates free publicity and unearned brand loyalty.

In Australia, we have a number of very loud and outspoken racist politicians who allegedly believe in this country and want it to do well, but when you look at their actions they're all wining and dining billionaires and only looking to attack Aboriginal or foreign people, not uplift all Australians to a brighter better future.

It sounds to me like the program you were a part of had noble intentions, but without knowing more details I have to assume it could easily have been affected some of the issues I've mentioned.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

I haven't been to a stadium since 1994. Fuck sports.

 

Many of us are feeling a certain way right now—trying to make sense of the level of injustice, misinformation, and apathy in the world. In the absence of a satisfying explanation or solution, I've done my best to offer my own take on it. I hope that by opening up about some of my past and what I care about, you’ll see the human context of these issues. I hope this is the right place to post and not against the rules!

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