s0larfl4re

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[–] s0larfl4re@sh.itjust.works 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

well, i dunno. he helps her. he says hi to her, goes places with her with her parents, and tutors her. he told me he views her as “the sister he never had” as an only child.

he is of normal maturity but he is also neurodivergent so he may view the relationship differently. (not in a rude way, but like, his brain works differently so he may find some commonalities with her and not see age as a problem as long as it isn’t romantic).

[–] s0larfl4re@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 days ago

fair enough, he just helps her with schoolwork sometimes, idk if they are friends like two adults are though, he calls her a friend though

[–] s0larfl4re@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 days ago

it’s not offending him afaik but i felt bad 🤷

 

yes, the title is correct and not bait 👍

i (22x) have a friend/acquaintance (25m) who is friends with a 13f irl, but people are calling him a weirdo.

he has no romantic relations with this girl and knows her through her dad (40s, m) but people are still calling him a creep and idk how to help besides saying he isn’t. it’s not like he went out of his way to go “hi im looking for 13 year old girls, wanna be friends?”

i feel really bad for the girl and i hope he doesn’t have any bad feelings or intentions, but i’ve heard from him he’s done nothing but mentor her and tutor her.

(i wasn’t there idk if i can truly believe it, but still)

[–] s0larfl4re@sh.itjust.works 5 points 3 days ago (2 children)
  1. me too and im on my period. feels like shit and i have cramps that are really painful
[–] s0larfl4re@sh.itjust.works 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

i can try going!! i’m scared that it’s just as bad here in the u.s. as the country from which i came (russia) even when my family came here to escape.

[–] s0larfl4re@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

what are you gonna do this month for pride?

[–] s0larfl4re@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 days ago (3 children)

are you going to the parade?

 

i know everyone knows it’s pride month but i like celebrating it as a transmasc enby :) 🏳️‍⚧️

[–] s0larfl4re@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

What language(s) does she speak? If it’s English, he’ll just have to learn it anyway eventually so what better motivation than to date someone who only speaks English. International relationships where the partners have different motherlanguages and different degrees of fluency in a shared language are not uncommon.

apparently, he just said she speaks russian but not fluent

I am just very confused where the two keep meeting with him being on call with the family all the time. Are you in Uni and he’s constantly on the phone during lectures or what?

i live in us, him in poland. he tells me he usually calls the woman in front of his parents

 

my (22nb, 22ftm[?]) friend mark (20m) lived in poland since he was 4. he speaks russian, polish, and english.

his English isn’t the best sometimes, and he has foreign accent. he is in love with a woman (24f) he wants to date, but she only speaks English and his family only speaks russian and polish too. he is almost always talking to family on call the whole time in russian, and it gets awkward because she also can’t understand it.

[–] s0larfl4re@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

ohhhhhh. how did you learn english? random question, i know 😭

[–] s0larfl4re@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 week ago (3 children)

ууу! i hear finland is very happy and accepting, is this true?

[–] s0larfl4re@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (5 children)

как там в европе? and idk, im not openly nonbinary to homophobic people especially, but i worry for the trans people and lgbt as a whole

 

i find it funny that i happen to be lgbt but was born in one of the countries that totally hates us. i’m nonbinary [she/he/they] and bi/pan :)

i moved to the us with my family at age 10 in 2013.

[–] s0larfl4re@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 weeks ago

hmm, i usually just say russian-chinese-american :)

 

half-european, half-asian 😊

 

please don’t hate the russian people or those of russian descent because of the government or putin 🙏

we do not all agree with the government. we are our own people with our own thinking patterns.

if i’ve said something like that i hate america, i just don’t like trump. but there are many cool americans.

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