"According to the Kinsey Institute, 12% of females and 22% of males respond erotically to BDSM" (on the Bondage Positions and Methods article) is surprising to me. I assumed it was more of a feminine practice.
Wait, that's BDSM, not bondage specifically. I'm ace so it's really not important, but I am curious about whether people prefer being tied up or seeing someone else tied up.
someone called me "you bitch" the other day (in jest, I was teasing them) and I just... it felt nice. gender affirming profanities. who knew?