Women very much worry about all sorts of things related to sexual performance.
I’m gonna be real with ya - I’m 40 and have been a self-described slut for a long time. I love sex. I love sex with other people (men and women). It’s great.
I’ve never felt let down or disappointed when I’ve been with a man who, for whatever reason, didn’t stay hard during our time. It happens! There’s so many things going on and it’s easy to let one area of focus slide.
Most people aren't going to be too bothered by this because they’ve probably been through something similar.
Yep!! And it’s similar for women - we can lose arousal easily if our mind isn’t fully focused on sex.
Keeping the goal of sex as just having fun and making your partner feel good is important. Climax is nice, but not necessary to have good sex.