blackwitch

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While my mom doesn't really "get it", as she says, she seems to try to support trans people at least, and I know she supports me being a lesbian.

My dad, however, is disgusted by gay people, though he says he genuinely doesn't care if I were to come out as gay to him (I haven't yet because I'm afraid he won't let me see my girlfriend anymore if I do).

I know for a fact that he is very conservative and transphobic. Yesterday, we went to the store, and the worker helping us out with what to buy was a trans woman with a trans pin and a "she/her" pin. Dad was really upset when we came out of the store, saying he didn't feel safe around the worker, that she had no business being around me as his daughter and said she looked like a guy.

I know, as well, that living under his roof, I can't go to my trans friend (FtM)'s house nor can he go to ours as "'she' doesn't know if 'she's' a man or a woman".

I can't even come out as genderfluid because my Dad would freak out, so I wish parents like him cared less about their beliefs and politics and cared more about how the kid felt or that the kid can spend time with their friend regardless of the parent's own beliefs.

[–] blackwitch@lemmings.world 16 points 1 month ago

Yeah, I feel like if it's been a week, she doesn't wanna talk. You should call it off IMO.

[–] blackwitch@lemmings.world 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Congrats!!! Parabéns as we say in my other language!!

[–] blackwitch@lemmings.world 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Não falo espanhol (bem, falo um pouco) nem francês mas falo português! I gladly will

[–] blackwitch@lemmings.world 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

In Portuguese, "hétero" just means straight

[–] blackwitch@lemmings.world 25 points 1 month ago (2 children)

your ex friend was overreacting. Hetero is not offensive as far as I know.

[–] blackwitch@lemmings.world 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Een pester die ik ken is nu mijn vriendin en zij is aardig voor mij dus ze pest me niet maar zij haat sommige mensen op haar school.

[–] blackwitch@lemmings.world 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Pestkoppen op de middelbare school? Ik weet het niet. Ze pesten waarschijnlijk anderen, of ze zijn verbeterd.

[–] blackwitch@lemmings.world 3 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Het gaat goed, ik leer Nederlands :)

[–] blackwitch@lemmings.world 2 points 2 months ago

Thank you!!!!!!

[–] blackwitch@lemmings.world 2 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Now it's my profile picture, haha!

 

 

I would absolutely love this if so

 

 

I'm so sleepy fellow lesbians

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