WallsToTheBalls

Could be interesting if true but thems are some big shoes to fill

Only $25? Fuck yeah

Kink3d cobra is the golden standard

They pretty clearly use he/him pronouns tho

Except that’s way after critical language development could be aided by implants, leaving deaf adults who later decide to get them stuck having to relearn how to talk.

I took several years of sign language and I have to be real, the deaf community at large have some fucking weird opinions about healthcare

Deaf kids getting shunned because they got a cochlear implant is a good example

Or parents refusing inexpensive implants early in life for their kids because they’d rather their kid be deaf like them than even have a chance to develop regular speech patterns. It’s cruel.

Combine this with the simultaneous victim-complex about how hard it is being deaf (which is entirely fair. We did a project where we all wore earplugs for a week at school, and that was HARD. Got really good at cheating in ASL tho) and it all makes me feel kinda…. Icky?

“Being deaf isn’t a disability, but also we will shame you if you get treatment. Also being deaf is so hard and there’s a lot we can’t do. But I won’t let me daughter get implants, because then she would be less deaf than me, which isn’t a disability”

And it’s cruel, because then they never get the opportunity to develop speech when they’re young with audible feedback.

They must be balanced, as all things should be

shudders

Shit, I’d start with the reinstall personally

When you say you feel like you hit a wall, how deep are we talking? When you use lube, are you applying it directly to the toy, inserting it via an applicator or something, or both?

Anal is largely mental partially physical. You have to train yourself to relax and stretch. Inserting lube inside you is also a big help. Lubing up a toy directly makes it easier, but you’re still fighting unlubed skin until you’ve penetrated yourself far enough to spread it around, and it’s almost never enough just in the toy.

Use an egregious amount of lube. Like, tons of it. Get a large syringe, fill it with lube, and squirt it inside you. You literally cannot use too much.

For me, i hit a ‘wall’ at about 5-6in inside me that requires me to focus, relax, and position myself so my insides align to allow me to take it deeper. Positioning training is good for this- what positions work best are different for everyone.

Anyway that was a mind dump, let me know if you have any other questions, and to to the Lemmy sissy community 🥰

Thrilled to see this poster spam the same pose every day just like on reddit