Tartas1995

It is so fucking odd, how many people are claiming that e.g. the male loneliness issue is blaming women and then agree with your post.

I agree with your post. I just don't understand how so many people here can agree that the patriarchy is harming men and is e.g. isolating men, but then turn around and act like mentioning the symptoms and talking about them, makes you misogynistic.

I don't get it. Women have my support, I just hope I will have theirs too.

It doesn't contain your phone number when read as a base 10 number! Checkmate, I got your phone number!

Sorry...

Also he is obsessed with the perception of him. I meant dude bought the right to call himself a founder and so much more.

This open dislike towards him is probably the worst thing for him.

The most insane thing is how common that is.

There are 3 other types that makes me feel stuff.

1. Bio: "I am a foodie and like to travel" there is no way that someone is that boring. Fuck, I am a it nerd, I am boring but I know more interesting stuff to say about me.

2. It is often plus sized women, but people whose profile screams that they have no confidence. When with 1., I feel even worse bad. Like girls, you are so much better than you present yourself. Honestly with that mental don't be there, heal first. We are all amazing in our way, you just need to sell yourself properly.

3. As I lived in Singapore for a while, I have something else, women from neighboring countries setting their position to SG and trying to flirt with a white person (with his language skills listed) while not really knowing English at all. I get why but girl, I can't love you if we can't understand each other, you don't want me to choose you if we don't understand each other. For context, SG average yearly salary: 55k€, Malaysian average yearly salary: 16k€, Indonesian average yearly salary: 4,5k€. In their mind, a Singaporean is rich, and a white person in sg has higher education and a well paid job in SG. The dream of a white knight...

Oh boy! You serious? I said if it is real love and:

We need to make the difference between what each person thinks.

Let's say, person A is 50+ yo and person B is 19yo.

If A doesn't love B and B doesn't live A, A is just getting a prostitute. And that can be judged for all the reasons, you can judge that for. And personally, I think using the service of a sex worker is yikes.

If A doesn't love B and B loves A, then it is obvious why it is abusive and yikes.

If A loves B and B doesn't love A, because B is in it for the money, A is doing what you quoted and B is taking advantage too but without necessarily knowing what that could mean down the line.

If A loves B and B loves A, A is doing what you quoted.

As I said in my comment, if it is real love, meaning of the side of A as I was judging his behavior, what I said remains true.

Thanks for showing us that you aren't willing to think about the topic in detail. I will take that as a sign to end the conversation. Have a great day and try thinking about it.

It is fun how you ignore parts of my message. And i don't think we talk about the same kind of desperation.

If you are human trafficking and you might get killed if you don't earn enough money for your pimp, is not the same kind of desperation than what someone feels when they look at their account and see that they only have money for 1 month rent.

i have no interest to discuss what kind of desperation is or is not fine to abuse. Or what kind of desperation could possibly motivate someone to do anything.

In case, you are wondering what you are ignoring. 1. I don't want, not I don't. I need to eat, I don't need to fuck a sex worker. 2. I said especially something like sex work, highlighting that I have a different set of rules for different kinds of stuff.

I am sorry that your understanding of the issue is solely limited to the ability to consent of a person and not the nature of the consent and the underlaying dynamics of such a relationship.

and adult or not, at 19yo most people don't know the chains of adulthood and the dangers of dependencies. A 50+yo certainly does. If I am in an environment that my partner is familiar with, I expect my partner to care for me and look out for my interest. E.g. my gf's culture has a very different understanding of what spicy means, I can eat real mala but some of their stuff is just way to spicy for me. She warns me. The 50+yo is the person familiar with the environment in the context of dependencies. They carry a responsibility towards their partner if it is real love. engaging in such a relationship could be an indicator that they take advantage of their partner lack of knowledge/experience or that they don't know any better and at 50+yo, both are yikes.

Well, personally I think that working in sex work is totally fine, but using the service is morally questionable. I believe that there are people who want to work in sex work, but I also believe that people who are in it out of desperation. These people will lie about their motivation because people who care to ask don't want to if the motivation is desperation. And so you can't know if you are just using a service that someone willing provide, or a service that is motivated by desperation. I don't want to use a service powered by desperation, especially when it is something like sex work.

Up until 19-year-old, I am fine with it.

If you are approaching pension anyway and you need to reorganize your life, why not move to somewhere warmer and cheaper, it is not like the job market for 50+yo is amazing. And if you live there anyway, why can't you love someone local? (Also you are technically giving wealth back to countries that have been exploited)

Now the 19 year old part... Yikes.

Also to be considered financial dependency, you don't want to chain your partner onto you with the threat of huge quality of life loss.

You should probably think about why that question matters for you. it is important for you to process whatever you need to. For example, it might be the case that separating your friends actions and intentions from your experience is helpful to you. It might be reasonable to say he didn't intend to and the actions weren't but your experience was. We experience what we believe and not "reality" and so if you believed it do be sa then you experience what you experienced. I don't know what you actually experienced, so please don't just take this. think about why you care and if you have the answer.

Fun fact, https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_purpose_of_a_system_is_what_it_does.

So arguably not even being hyperbolic.

I nuked my own accounts. Fuck reddit.