SweetCitrusBuzz

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago

clashing with their users' need to stay isolated from users who are toxic to them.

Sadly Lemmy does not solve this problem as the creators think like a corporation or do not want to be fully cut off from other users and thus do not have proper blocking (which is something built into ActivityPub mind you), for now it is only one way blocking which does not solve being isolated from toxic users as it still allows for some toxic behaviour etc.

If Lemmy ever gets that feature it would actually prove that it is dedicated to user safety, but a lot of people in the open source social media world seem to be 'concerned' with not being able to see everything due to entitlement, as others unrelated to Lemmy also are lacking the same or similar features.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 14 hours ago

Maybe, but social problems cannot entirely be solved with technology.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (1 children)

Yes, I meant more long term but didn't express that fully. So you are correct, corporate social media will go that way eventually unless they do the things we recommended.

[–] [email protected] 37 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago) (3 children)

Corporations cannot create nontoxic social media, the incentives will always be there to make it toxic.

The only way to do it is something like mastodon where actual people run it and thus can deal with people who are being toxic either by blocking etc because the fear of losing money, or the likelihood of the entire site/platform disappearing etc just isn't there (obvioiusly individuals sites go down sometimes but the entire network is unlikely to disappear), or by the use of people explaining why what they did was wrong and the toxic people listen.

Edit: If Bluesky actually ever becomes decentralised as in users can run their own servers and federate or block other servers then perhaps it might become good, but until such a time then I do not trust them.

They should also make a non-profit foundation if they want to be seen as trustworthy, so that they can't ever be sold off.

Those are the only way we and many others will ever trust them.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 23 hours ago

Today we learned about Bliss Stage which sounds a lot better than F.A.T.A.L in some regards.

There's also Thirsty Sword Lesbians which focuses a lot on consent.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago
[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I can do them, but honestly I would prefer to have played through many without such a mainstay of games. It just often gets in the way of what I am really there for: the story. Plus it's becoming more and more gruesome.

I think though killing and rape are not exactly the same. Women are historically treated very poorly in game spaces, both in games and outside of them. This kind of thing just adds to it and honestly makes me question what the developers are really like.

As someone else said "check whether there are women in the developer's dungeon".

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Good. Honestly most games in the sex space are pretty bad for both consent and treating the characters like actual people.

The dialogue is pretty unrealistic too.

The only good one we have come across so far is Cute Demon Crashers. It is heavily about consent and the writing isn't that bad either. True, it's not going to be 'realistic' in terms of character models nor have fully fleshed out sex scenes but since most in that genre seem to be terrible in general perhaps that is a good thing.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago

'Experimental'. Lol, bet they've not read one actual study.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

Thanks for your reply and further clarifying your point. 🙂

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (2 children)

but there's not much food on it, so probably not worth planting outside of its native range.

It is important to not plant things outside of their native range. However, plants and animals do not exist only for food. They exist so they should continue to and should be helped, not as something useful for creatures but because they should and because they help life no matter whether they are seemingly immediately useful for creatures or not.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

We could try. Though since I'm 'just' autistic, it might not work for y'all, but I can post what we do.

 

A really enjoyable swing album made by women only.

 

What are some games you like that most people hate, view negatively and/or were panned by critics?

 

cross-posted from: https://beehaw.org/post/18172576

A hilarious video explaining how not to look like a Not-So nice guy if you're giving a speech to many people!

 

A hilarious video explaining how not to look like a Not-So nice guy if you're giving a speech to many people!

 

cross-posted from: https://beehaw.org/post/18135870

A great video about both getting hormones and blockers and how to safely use them if you want or have to do it DIY.

 

cross-posted from: https://beehaw.org/post/18135870

A great video about both getting hormones and blockers and how to safely use them if you want or have to do it DIY.

 

cross-posted from: https://beehaw.org/post/18135870

A great video about both getting hormones and blockers and how to safely use them if you want or have to do it DIY.

 

cross-posted from: https://beehaw.org/post/18135870

A great video about both getting hormones and blockers and how to safely use them if you want or have to do it DIY.

 

A great video about both getting hormones and blockers and how to safely use them if you want or have to do it DIY.

 

We get the feeling that most protectors/guardians etc are actively hostile or feel angry etc most of the time, and the person in our group who does this for us is like that sometimes. However, mostly it is emotionless or has low emotion and we were wondering if y'all/y&/you&/you experience that.

We think the reason they are like this is because it allows us to be more clear, honest and leave the extreme emotion that overwhelmed at least one of us behind.

It has gotten angry before and once very upset when something happened without their consent (it wasn't anything big and got resolved quickly).

So yeah, feel free to let us know if y'all'd/y&'d/you&'d/you'd like.

 

cross-posted from: https://beehaw.org/post/17983418

A great video about how cis people should stop playing trans characters especially if the actor is the gender they are transitioning from not to.

 

cross-posted from: https://beehaw.org/post/17983418

A great video about how cis people should stop playing trans characters especially if the actor is the gender they are transitioning from not to.

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