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joined 2 years ago
[–] [email protected] 0 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I have noticed the high level of political memes and threads and don't care for it. I didn't understand why they were so common, I thought we were all trying to get away from politics.

I will try a different instance and report back.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 10 months ago (3 children)

I hear you. When I first joined .ml, they were pressing for people NOT to join it. To create their own instances so that .ml didn't become a central entity, and get overwhelmed with users. The latter did occur during the reddit exodus.

I also agree that they can curate and manipulate the instance to their ideals, which will limit casual users and their reach.

I don't feel like I'm being secluded, but that doesn't mean it isn't happening. I have seen hate for .ml users and hexbear users, and I really don't get it. The fediverse shouldn't be segregating users based on what instance they're in. That's like saying all US citizens are awful because they live there.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 10 months ago (5 children)

The views of .ml mods have not affected me. I don't really check my subscription feed, only /all or /top->day, therefor im still exposed to all those other communities.

The only instances that I've noticed are missing are porn related, and as an asexual, I don't have an interest in them. If I did, I could just visit a different site, like pornhub or w/e

Not all .ml users are tankies, or communist, or foss enthusiasts. I'm just a guy who likes memes and tech

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago

You're not wrong

[–] [email protected] 0 points 10 months ago (3 children)

I still eat meat, but I'm aware of the meat industry. I would love if we could thrive on lab-grown meat (where we are only killing cells) rather than the current (killing animals). Now that we're no longer eating animals purely for survival, we shouldn't be taking advantage of lesser beings.

Imagine if aliens came to earth and harvested us for food. We can beg and plead, but to the alien minds, who are much more intelligent to us, they interpret our cries as joy.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

"I have a big head, and little arms. And I'm not sure how well this plan was thought through..."

 

Hello!

I'm a novice player looking for a group. I can build a character and play the game just fine, but I'm still learning and will have questions. I'm open to DND 5E or your homebrew game (I'll need time to learn it, and I will probably have lots of questions).

I'm currently free every night except Tuesday. I'm open to 1-shots, short campaign, or long campaign (fresh start or mid-join up to level 5). I'm in PST, so I can join anything from PST to EST.

I enjoy campaigns with some sandbox, but with a defined goal or mission. I enjoy DMs that can paint a picture in my mind. (These are not deal-breakers.)

I don't like DMs who charge through areas, or give us too much information: "If you were to look in that well, you'd see..." or "Are you going to check out this (unassuming) wall over here?" (Also not deal-breakers, but I will probably not start another campaign).

Bonus points:

  • Zombies / Zombie homebrew
  • PVP stat checks, but not PVP combat (when it's tasteful and not abused)
  • Good improv and fun people

Deal-breakers:

  • Unfair screen time or players controlling the campaign
  • Extreme themes (Rape, slavery, child murder/abuse)
  • Sex RP (I'm ok with PDA, romance, touching, etc. I'm not here for horny)
  • Inconsistent playtimes and/or Frequent missed sessions (I'm totally fine with adjusting by 1 hour before or after, I'd rather do that than cancel or shorten a session. I also understand that life happens, and each person has their reasons for missing a session. I don't like when we miss 4-6 weeks in a row because 1 or 2 people have stuff going on every session. I have a hard time catching up and getting back in character when that much time passes.)

I'm also open to niche themes:

  • Anthro / furry (or anything in-between)
  • Anime
  • Cyberpunk
  • etc.
[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

It's gotten better

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Ayy there's an Ace community again! I was 25 when I finally pieced it together. Thanks to the resources at /r/asexual.