IHatePepRallies

joined 2 months ago
 

I have seen a lot of posts on Gay Bros, as a genderfluid (mostly male) trans guy dating another trans guy, and a lot of the posts were just talking about how "men in dresses" should stop "pretending" to be lesbians and how "women" should stop "pretending" to be gay men.

There was one post in particular which I expected better from that said "is it okay to not want to date a trans man" and the comments were full of "is it okay to not want to date a woman? yes, you're gay not bi" and the like.

I have never seen that here or gotten that vibe. Thank you, GayBros Lemmy!

 

That’s me with my partner. I want to even have them in the room with me while I sleep.

 

I panicked and shut down the instance because I thought Google Cloud wasn't free.

I thought google cloud wasn't free so i panicked and shut it down... whoops.

 

AFAB genderfluid here. You have very limited information, I know that, but whatever.

My dad came from a quite traditional family. He used to be transphobic himself and was a little weirded out when I came out as a boy on some days, but my mom was always open-minded and my dad learned to accept it.

His sister, on the other hand, never learned to accept it and stayed the same: supportive of me liking men and women, but seemingly not supportive of me being genderfluid.

One day, I said I was on my period, and she said "Boys don't get periods, so you're a girl". When I first came out, she said "Well I accept you no matter what my beautiful niece" and is always trying to get me to look and be more feminine. She tried to get me to wear a skirt a bit ago when I'm usually a guy, not a girl, and I also don't really like wearing skirts as a guy.

 

When I was about 11 years old, I was in fifth grade and I knew some eighth graders. Well, the following year, I was 12 and they were freshmen. I started to hang out with them and I was like the "little sister" (I'm AFAB genderfluid now) of the group.

They got into alcohol from one of the freshmen's brother and they would offer me some whenever we hung out. Curiosity got the better of me, and sure enough, I was drinking pretty much every time we hung out.

Eventually, my parents found out, I quit the drinking altogether and I never hung out with those people again.

I am quite proud of myself, I haven't had a drink since I was twelve, actually. But I have heard that drinking alcohol can decrease your performance in things so yeah.

I joined for the federation mostly hehe

Ahh, fair. I’m new to federation

 

bekind.dedyn.io

Yeah, that’s fine. As long as you’re not an awful person, which “kind of an asshole” sounds like it isn’t.

 
 
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[–] IHatePepRallies@discuss.online 3 points 2 months ago

Hoi! Ik ben Francisco en ik ben ook biseksueel! Het gaat goed, en met jou?