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YSK that a new internet/account bypass during Windows 11 installs already exists. Here is a 7 step guide. in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago (1 children)

But that's only 5 steps!

90s band alignment chart in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago (3 children)

Someone explain the sarcasm belt to me and why Radiohead is sad sarcastic

90s band alignment chart in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 12 points 4 days ago

This is what I came here to ask, I specifically was looking for Deftones in the horny section and when I didn't see it I assumed Deftones was excluded.

Imagine my surprise when it's all the way on the angry side.

All the songs are Chino moaning into the mic, make it make sense.

FL wants more child labor in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 days ago

No problem!

My guess is it's only a matter of time

FL wants more child labor in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Hi there! You did do the wrong one ;) reins refers to the item that is used to guide horses and the like, and so "reining something/someone in" is the correct term. Reign means to rule over.

It might help you remember which is which if you think of Santa's REINdeer (deer wearing reins)! Hope that helps :)

Definitely didn't waste half an hour making this in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

6, which I guess is pretty similar to my pick for number 5 on the pen post. Looks like the weight and style would feel best in my hand. Sadly none of them have my favorite feature of having fairly long and good quality erasers on it like my current favorite (non imported) mechanical pencil. Can't remember the name off the top of my head

3's grip looks the most comfy in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 week ago

5, man I loved those pens when taking notes in college.

Emptiness Will Eat the Witch, 2024 in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

Hope you get a response, I'm incredibly curious about the technique here!

Got a tattoo of my favorite things to cook in my favorite pan in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

Two eggs sunnyside up in a cast iron! My daily breakfast ❤️

Tattoo looks well done and I love the traditional flower element, complements the art style of the cast iron nicely

It's creepy in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago

Screenshots for you

woolly mice on rice all nice in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

That's what they said /j

Yall guess who showed up in my dms in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 weeks ago

I haven't yet :(

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Need advice on new sensory friendly office shoes (sh.itjust.works)
 

I just started interning and it's my first office job (Yay!) but most of the clothes I feel comfortable wearing are not really office attire. Especially shoes. I have no "appropriate" shoes because shoes have always been a particular source of sensory issues so I wear the same black pair of mesh trainers. I have to commute in a big city so I end up walking a decent amount, and shoes that are tight and/or heavy really mess with my focus.

Do you guys have any advice on how to find comfortable shoes that are at least a bit more office appropriate? Maybe solid clean white sneakers? For reference I'm female.

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Sudoku of the Day - July 12, 2023 (sh.itjust.works)
 

Here are today's sudoku puzzles!

What difficulty did you complete? How much time did it take you? Are you stuck on a difficulty, or did you learn any new techniques?

Discuss!

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Looking for moderators! Introduce yourself! (sh.itjust.works)
 

Are you experienced in sudoku and/or have experience moderating a subreddit, community, or similar? This is my first time opening and moderating a community and I would love some help growing this place, keeping it active, and moderating content if necessary.

If you're interested in becoming a moderator, just leave me a comment down below if you have any experience (and maybe a bit about yourself, or not, I don't really care much).

Thanks for stopping by!

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just saying hi as a recent divorcee due to being childfree (sh.itjust.works)
 

TL;DR at the bottom.

I (24f) am going through the legal elements of a divorce but have been separated for a few months now. I loved my ex husband, but before marrying I made it clear I didn't want kids and didn't want him to wait or hope for me to change my mind. He agreed and told me he would be happy with me even if I never wanted kids.

Just under a year ago he sat me down and told me he had been realizing more and more that he changed his mind and thinks he does want kids. I asked how long this had been happening, he said about a year. I already knew where this was headed, but thought I owed it to us to at least try. Months of therapy and thinking and talking and waiting for him to come to the same conclusion I had brought up to him and accepted pretty early on and we finally decided mutually that we would have to divorce. I didn't want him to stay with me and risk having any resentment towards me and feel unfulfilled, and I dont want kids. I don't know if I'll want them in the future, I don't think I will, but he wanted them ASAP so it was irrelevant anyways.

At least the separation/divorce has been amicable, but it was (and sometimes still is) incredible difficult emotionally. I'm grateful that his family didn't guilt me when they learned of the reason for the divorce, though the reason he gave for me being childfree was medical reasons which is only kind of true. Still, at least I didn't get any flak for it from anybody.

The guy I'm talking to now is vehemently childfree and it's great being able to freely make faces about or feel annoyed by children, not want to go to baby showers or baby birthday parties, and all other things that I used to feel alone in with my ex husband (and made me wonder for a while if he was truly childfree like me). Not to say you have to dislike children to be childfree, but I would often get a weird look about my attitude and discomfort around children.

I was never active on the subreddit but I'm making more of an effort to be active in the communities on Lemmy, so I guess hi everyone! How are you? Anybody here with a similar story?

TL;DR My husband changed his mind and I didn't so now I'm a 24 year old divorcée introducing myself and my story being childfree :)

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