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This has consistency? I need to know more.
For the trans people: We love you just like everybody else. Know what? I love you more than everybody else, because you fucking deserve it, knowing what these fucks make you go through.
There's people that like you the way you are nearby.
Needs to be said from time to time.
On the healthiness of your yard: Dry patches are fine, there are plants for that too. The important part is leaving it alone. I would recommend to mow maybe once a year max. I know, it gets real logn, but that way nature can work wonders. The glass and clover root network will widen and sprawl and fill that space in. And if there is still too much dry dirt there, then other plants will take over. Clover is already more resistant than grass, other weeds are even more resistant. Do an experiment, see what happens. I recommend looking for local dry area plants. We have Heide for that, not sure what it is in english, I'm a german native.
Could you define the weather region, local biome and Surrounding biology? I can not precisely help you with that otherwise.
MAN do I wish I would get that response. Instead I don't stare at people, mainly cuz I'm shy. It also doesn't bode well when I would, as just because I'm shy doesn't mean that women are not scared of my appearance, which sucks.
If you ecological invasiveness, which is an issue with squirrels in some countries, thats fair. But theres ways you can work around that and still have a nice, healthy yard.
Cool stuff, but that doesn't fix that. She needs a new school in a different place.
She also needs financial compensations. Ideally in the 10s of thousands. Let her have that money as well, fuck it.
Actually, since that's 10% and the number of "HA"s is 80, that would be HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.
This is literally true. Sure, your memory might tell you that you suck at drawing, but that's what it is about. A lot of it mental. You might not be able to draw something perfectly and if you draw a face, oh boy will it look like shit, but can you draw a stick? Can you draw an apple? How well can you draw an apple? How can you improve on that? Artists sure as hell didn't start out the way they are now. They have histories on their art, look at their progression. And be sure to know that they had to work up the courage to share their art and didn't do so after years.
You're a human. You developed to do this kind of stuff. You had to learn to write, so you did. If you like writing you even learned to do it well. If some random ass guy can learn to draw with their foot, then you can learn to draw with one of the most precise evolutions of the animal kingdom.
- True that, I had not thought of that.
Ok, so by biome I meant the biome and not the area. Is it a clay like ground? Are you in a salt marsh? Ideally you could provide a name or even just a type.
Depending on soil composition and environment I would then like to recommend things like:
If you have a lot of silt, so mineral heavy, and that is unusual for the environment, work the top layer of dirt and get some compost in there (few centimeters deep even) to increase bio matter availability, then use nitrogen and water binding plants like clovers to further increase soil quality. This can help in your case because they sometimes put shitty ass sandy soil under and around concrete so it drains better.
That's an example that may not apply and may be a bad choice. There's a lot of things you can do.
On the topic of drought:
You probably, again depending on biome, want to get low silt, high carbon soil. The ways you can get that are a lot and the best way depends on, you guessed it, the biome. It holds on to the water better. You can also use plants that keep the water in soil longer, clover is good at that. It's kind of the perfect plant to make an area fertile again. If it grows, that's a good first sign. And if it looks dead, chances are it's not. Drought resistant plants, actual shrubs, they help. If it is really bad you might want to get a large rain barrel just to keep it going until it reaches a stable state.
Your country has the National Vegetation C-something (NVC), which will tell you which plants are found in your area. You can then buy some proper seeds for those conditions from an appropriate seller. https://wildseed.co.uk/mixtures/complete-mixtures/
You can't just plant any wild seed pack.
I would like to know the makeup and depth of your soil, as well as if there is anything underneath it, maybe concrete? Is there water nearby, how close and what kind is it? Could you go to a similar area nearby that has growth and compare? How long are drought periods? What are temperatures and precipitation like throughout the year in some actual metric? Ideally you'd look that up on open meteo, since I doubt you want to give me the coords of you city. If you really want some help you would take some pics of soil samples from home and local meadow as well as the plants that grow there and send them to me per dm.
Would love to help you get a buzzy garden. A healthy ecosystem doesn't even need to be full of the annoying buzzers like wasps, you get to decide that. Do it for the Beatles. I wrote that wrong didn't I.