Ok, ladies: Would you rather out yourself as a woman online, or spend the night in the woods with a bear?
this post was submitted on 29 May 2024
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Touché(e?), but an anonymous poll is different.
Anyone thinking that lemmy is a welcoming space to women should read through that thread first.
Edit: the current state of Lemmy and the fediverse reminds me heavily of early reddit, for better and for worse. You can curate some pretty supportive communities if you are careful picking them out, they remain well moderated, etc. But there are plenty of places where you'll get scummy content if you wander or if posts attract too much attention.
I think I would swap all usage of "Lemmy" for "Hexbear" in the OP as that instance is not an accurate representation of the whole of Lemmy. Perhaps choosing one of the general Lemmy instances would give a more accurate representation.
Here’s the problem. This is the internet.
These are locally run and often volunteer based instances.
Anyone can spawn any amount of accounts and run their instance however they’d like, giving lots of trolls neat little nooks to hide in.
You’re expecting to get real results? How did you account for multiple votes? How are you even sure that the data from the polls if unique, is accurate?
Garbage in. Garbage out. People will use Lemmy if they want to. End of story. Idk why everyone is so obsessed with inflating user counts
i don't think hexbear is a good sample group for the average lemmy user nor representative of lemmy users a whole. you might do better sampling lemmy.world, or assembling a meta poll from the top 5 or top 10 instances.
I'm a Cis woman on Lemmy. I don't know what the fuck "hexbear" is. I didn't vote. Thank you.
There’s a reason that your instance (and others) has defederated from hexbear.
What's the weird thing with open source community's fixation on sex or gender identity?
I like to believe we can reach a world where those things don't matter anymore. But I'm just pointing out that right now there's deficit of AFAB people here. I'm not saying it's necessarily the fault of the open source community, but I would like to understand why exactly this has occurred. Is that wrong?
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