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One random night, I lay on my bed in my silent bedroom, and I felt that the silence is uncomfortable. Why, I asked myself, that the silence felt sharp, like I prefer the noise of my annoyingly loud dehumidifier, or the muffled sound of traffic in my old apartment?

I realized that the silence was ringing, in a high pitched noise that we all associate with being hit near the ears. My inner voice told myself: "man, you have tinnitus."

Thinking back, that wasn't the first time I thought that I have tinnitus, but I was probably in denial for years, or it just got louder. The sad part is that I'm only 26, and somehow, I feared getting tinnitus ever since my childhood.

Even worse, I just ordered a pair of headphones with ANC, and when I don't play anything through it, the ringing gets very clear.

Was depressed for a few days, thinking that it's not fair that I got it even though I don't expose myself to loud noises often, I listen to music at a couple levels lower than my preference, and I don't turn up my music to drown out noises.

But nothing in life is fair, and to compared to the suffering of others, this is only a mild discomfort. So I'll try to keep positive about it, and be grateful that I still enjoy a comparatively luxurious life.

I'll visit a doctor soon though!

Any of you have a similar experience? I'll be happy to read your stories!

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[–] DarkSirrush@lemmy.ca 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I have had tinnitus all my life, and honestly did not know the ringing wasnt a normal thing until I watched an episode of Archer. Becoming truly aware of it was a terrible day for me.

Generally, it isn't something that is treatable, but in my opinion it is better to have it at an earlier age, when your brain is more adaptable, as it makes it easier to adapt to the constant ringing, and learn ways to tune it out.

If you need to, get some sort of white noise/nature sound generator and keep it playing during the quiet times, and focus on those noises. I find that tinnitus is worst when you are focusing on it, and the more you think about it, the more you notice it.

One thing I have found to NEVER work is mentally playing with the volume/pitch - those sliders only go up, and stay up until I have focused on something else for awhile.

[–] dragonfucker@lemmy.nz 0 points 11 months ago

Drag can make it go down.

[–] aeki@slrpnk.net 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

My tinnitus sounds like the insects I could hear at night when I was younger in the tropics.

I don't live there anymore and the tinnitus feels comforting because of it. It doesn't distress me at all.

[–] pepperonisalami@sh.itjust.works 2 points 11 months ago

That is oddly beautiful. I can see the resemblance with cicada or cricket sounds. I used to live in the tropics as well. When I'm bummed about it I'll think of your comment.

[–] JudahBenHur@lemm.ee 1 points 11 months ago

Ive had it since I was pretty young. I can't hear it unless I try- for example, your post made me become conscious of it, and there it is. It comes and goes, I notice. It doesn't bother me at all, essentially

[–] silmarine@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 11 months ago

Few times I've had this and the doctor just cleaned my ear and it was gone. In ear headphones can cause that by pushing earwax back. I stopped using in ear headphones and haven't had that happen in years. Just giving you a reason to stay positive, tinnitus can cause by some easily fixed things.

[–] Hikermick@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago

There are two causes for tinnitus. Your brain is hearing sounds that aren't there and poor blood circulation at your ear. I was 29 when I developed tinnitus after scuba diving in deep water. Ginkgo biloba helped me in a few hours after taking it. It's cheap and available at drug stores if you're interested in trying it

[–] StringPotatoTheory@lemmy.world 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

About 8 years ago I got out of the shower and was cleaning the water out of my right ear (as I usually did) and I must have done it wrong that time, as when I went to lay down that night I heard this very annoying high pitch sound from that ear. I might have looked around to see if that sound was coming from something (maybe from my computer, other electronics, or something outside). But no, it was from my ear.

Took about 2-3 years for me to be able to completely tune it out when there's silence. Sometimes I miss being able to hear nothing when it's quiet, but now I have ringing in both ears so it's really easy to ignore it.

It might suck for a while until your brain is able to tune it out, but it'll be easier someday.

[–] pepperonisalami@sh.itjust.works 1 points 11 months ago

It's a bit overwhelming for me at the moment, but it's very comforting to hear that it'll get easier over time.

[–] bisserkr@lemmy.world 0 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

If there's no physical damage (i.e. Loud music), and there's no nerve inflammation ( Ive been fighting this since I got covid a few years ago) or some sort of infection.. just go get your ears cleaned and you'll most likely be fine.

[–] queermunist@lemmy.ml 0 points 11 months ago

Nope. Had it as long as I can remember. Some people are just born with it.

[–] xep@fedia.io 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I've had tinnitus since I was a child. Like others in this thread I learned to live with it, and I don't need white noise to tune it out. You might end up being able to do the same. Like the others it seems to get louder if my blood pressure goes up.

[–] pepperonisalami@sh.itjust.works 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

That's pretty cool that you can tune it out. I hope I'll be able to do it as well!

[–] can@sh.itjust.works 1 points 11 months ago

I promise you will in time! It caused me a lot of distress but now I barely notice.