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For me, there's something about eating out at night just feels right

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[–] tigermountain@lemmy.world 1 points 4 days ago

Look at the stars.

[–] Epp@lemmus.org 5 points 6 days ago

Me, too! Eating out under the covers. At least until she gets too sensitive.

[–] JustPlainDave@lemmy.zip 6 points 6 days ago
[–] noxypaws@pawb.social 6 points 6 days ago

Grocery shopping. Ideally later than 10pm. Safly fewer and fewer stores are open that late.

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago

Pokemon go walk is better at night.

We will go out to eat in the day often, and I strongly prefer an afternoon cocktail not any night drink.

Usually our supper is around 9 (2100) because that's what the schedule allows, I wouldn't say I prefer it.

Basically I am an afternoon/early evening person. But a night walk of any sort is so lovely.

[–] TaeKwonDoh@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

Maybe this is subjective, but rock concerts. Having bright lights, pyro, lasers and other theatrics contrasted against a dark sky is an experience that must be seen to be believed.

[–] FreshParsnip@lemmy.ca 1 points 5 days ago

Watching scary movies

[–] hanrahan@slrpnk.net 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)
[–] weps@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago

turning a light off at night is also way more intense

[–] YragNitram1956@feddit.uk 1 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

How sweet the moonlight sleeps upon this bank! Here will we sit, and let the sounds of music Creep in our ears: soft stillness and the night Become the touches of sweet harmony. Look, how the floor of heaven Is thick inlaid with patines of bright gold: There's not the smallest orb that thou behold'st But in his motion like an angel sings Still quiring to the young-eyed cherubins; Such harmony is in immortal souls; But, whilst this muddy vesture of decay Doth grossly close it in, we cannot hear it. Come, ho! and wake Diana with a hymn: With sweetest touches pierce your mistress' ear, And draw her home with music. I am never merry when I hear sweet music. The reason is, your spirits are attentive: The man that hath no music in himself, Nor is not mov'd with concord of sweet sounds, Is fit for treasons, stratagems and spoils; The motions of his spirit are dull as night, And his affections dark as Erebus: Let no such man be trusted... Music! hark! It is your music of the house. Methinks it sounds much sweeter than by day. Silence bestows that virtue on it. How many things by season season'd are. To their right praise and true perfection! Peace, ho! the moon sleeps with Endymion, And would not be awak'd. Soft stillness and the night Become the touches of sweet harmony.

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 1 points 6 days ago

clubbing for some people, and drinking. movies and shows are good a tnight.

[–] AceFuzzLord@lemmy.zip 1 points 6 days ago

Most anything as long as it can be done quietly. When everyone else is asleep, nothing stops me from doing what I want. No need to worry my fanfiction singular word cannot be written and then be followed by writers block before being called to do other tasks.

[–] Lushed_Lungfish@lemmy.ca 1 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Reading a hefty old tome.

[–] tiramichu@sh.itjust.works 43 points 1 week ago
[–] Mantzy81@aussie.zone 40 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Using my telescope to look at stars. Only one star is visible during the daytime.

[–] Colonel_Panic_@eviltoast.org 2 points 6 days ago

Fine, I guess I'll look at the one available star with my telescope.

[–] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago (2 children)

this is just big telescope propaganda. in the day you don't even need a telescope to stare at the star.

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[–] cRazi_man@europe.pub 29 points 1 week ago

Everything. I've always been a night person, and doing everything is much more enjoyable when there's peace, no one is going to bother me, no one is going to call on the phone. Whether it is work or studying or watching movies or playing video games or exercise or anything...... It is always much better late at night.

I've started trying to replicate this in the day. I leave most calls unanswered and most messages unreplied till I'm ready and free. I go to work in a shared office and put in earphones immediately. I try to go to work late and stay late. It isn't very effective.

[–] givesomefucks@lemmy.world 24 points 1 week ago
[–] jobbies@lemmy.zip 18 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Getting drunk. Day drinking just seems weird.

[–] lucg@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

Not to my family it don't

[–] Kurtagag@lemmy.ca 18 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Having a fire and staring up at the stars

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[–] vane@lemmy.world 16 points 1 week ago

Playing horror games, watching horror movies.

[–] LemmyFeed@lemmy.dbzer0.com 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Ecstasy. With glow sticks.

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[–] A_A@lemmy.world 13 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Stargazing, howling to the Moon, cinepark.

[–] Rumo161@feddit.org 12 points 1 week ago (2 children)
[–] BigBrainBrett2517@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago

Survey says: Top Answer!

[–] Colonel_Panic_@eviltoast.org 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

May I interest you in some sex and rock&roll as well?

[–] Rumo161@feddit.org 1 points 6 days ago

That comes with the territory, i expect.

[–] rob_t_firefly@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Literally anything for me. I'm a naturally very nocturnal person. If left to form my own sleep cycle without having to accommodate others, I fall asleep around sunrise.

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[–] RodgeGrabTheCat@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 week ago (5 children)
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[–] forty2@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago

Mushrooms. Day trips have their place, but the night time is the right time.

[–] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Going for a joy ride on my e-scooter.

[–] lucg@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

No engine noise, but also not having to pedal, just you and the forest. I love driving it at night as well :)

Mapping with StreetComplete is my excuse to take it places, but I'm running out of places to map that can be reached either directly or by train (considering I also need to make it back before the trains decide it's sleepy time — I'd stay out overnight but more days than not there's work in the morning. Strange how that works :P)

[–] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

That is a cool reason to explore places. I love it!

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[–] treadful@lemmy.zip 9 points 1 week ago

Going for a walk.

[–] chunes@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago (7 children)

I miss grocery shopping in walmart at 2am.

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[–] BreadOven@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Flying a kite.

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