This is...so fucked up. Because it's true. The statistics are insane. I hate society.
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The statistics really are abhorent, and not just the heartbreakingly high share of women who have been assaulted but also that 95% of men in North America have tried to coerce women into sex
Oh jesus...oh shit...oh god...
That's...wow. That's worse than I thought.
That is beyond depressing. That's just...holy shit, what's wrong with this world?
look at the chart, not saying it will be that much less if you use your personal definition of rape, but the most common method "The most common strategy was telling a woman whatever she wanted to hear and this was used by the majority (78.1%)" probably wouldn't be called rape by very many people.
I hate society, but I love seeing new posts from you! I was really happy to see your name in my inbox this morning, Miisha <3
Awww, Velma π
I'd hug you if I could, really π«
Thank you, it means a lot to me π
Good comic with good message, but why do we censor the word rape like we're trying to avert our eyes from the truth?
The artist spoke about this on Reddit. Social media outlets automatically remove content with rape and ban the artists. She said she just canβt be bothered with the hassle so even though she dislikes doing it, she started self-censoring to comply.
As someone who has been browsing the web since the very beginning, young peoples' obsession with only using the same five websites and nothing else is so fucking bizarre to me. Don't like a particular platform's censorship? Use a different fucking platform! We've never had more options!
I agree as someone who held onto reddit for far too long. But if you're trying to reach a wide audience Lemmy doesn't really work for that.
Because everything has to be PG or people throw a fucking snowflake temper tantrum. Even though everyone knows the words they're obviously saying. It's like bleeping out cuas words on the radio. It's not like anyone over 4 doesn't know what they're saying.
As a side note I was an elementary teacher for a decade, your kids are sailors at school, even if you think they're angels.
Idk where you got the idea that it is the people who want this bullshit. Literally everywhere you see this kind of censorship, people are complaining that it's there.
It's fucking corporate run spaces and their AI moderation that will stifle the reach of posts or just straight up remove them if they don't follow the arbitrary censorship rules that is forcing content creators to self censor themselves in order to have their posts be visible on the major social media platforms.
At first I was gonna write something like "I can't remember hearing an argument quite that tonedeaf".
But then it came back to me:
It was during/right after the metoo movement.
"Well why didn't they speak up sooner?"
This coming from an older woman.
The generational disconnect is astonishing.
I hope whoever started this censorship fad falls into a meat grinder feet first. Stupidest bullshit ever.
Algorithms, investors, capitalism....
yup. meet my aunt. many years of pick me isms and trying to shame me for speaking out for the metoo movement.
she was kidnapped as a young woman in a foreign country. she says she survived the ordeal and was never afraid during the whole episode but since i have known her she was absolutely cruel , shaming any victim of rape, hoisting her opinions up on being a survivor looking down on everyone else
slowly... she found she couldnt stand to be alone anywhere. not even without a big dog.
then it got worse
fast forward decades later now she is in shambles struggling with that past trauma that manifested as severely crippling anxiety as she grows older and cant even be around more than a few people without having a massive emotional breakdown. the last one she ended up hospitalized. now isolated herself on an island, claiming shes just wanting 'alone time' and cant stand people.
doesnt hesitate to middle finger at any women who speak up about rape.
behold: the true 'survivor'.
Thank you for your aunt's story, it made me once again realise my levels of misanthropy aren't healthy and I need yet another 100 hours of therapy.
This reminds me of a story my daughter told me. My daughter and one of her guy friends were sitting around talking about their experiences. They got into the typical one upping each other and he dropped the first time he had sex was with his babysitter when he was 12.
My daughter immediately apologized for what had happened to him (babysitter was 17). He was confused at first because no one had ever reacted that way. Most people cheered or egged him on when he told them. After he thought about it he thanked her. I was very proud of her when she told me this.
β¦Iβm a guy, and I remember defaulting to βbraggingβ about having a 19 year old girlfriend when I was 14. That seemed socially appropriate because of the praise I got. My partner at the time apologized like that too and I , also, was confused.
When I remembered what happened the first time it was pretty bad.
I was spending the night at my friends house while both our parents went out and she was the βadultβ in case anything would happen while they were gone. She kept walking by the door in less and less clothing.
Then I remember her bringing us some snacks and drinks in her underwear for our video game marathon which caught my attention. We intended to stay up all night so I was confused when my friend fell asleep kinda suddenly.
I wasnβt tired so I kept playing. She comes out into the living room in only a towel, and just came over and took it from me, like. No words exchanged or anything just kissed me on the forehead when she was done with me. My friend is still snoring.
Suddenly I wanted to spend the night every weekend. Same scenario though, my friend would zonk out after snacks and she would come in and use me up. Of course it took me decades to realize she was drugging her brother so she could do that to me. I thought she loved me so I started treating her like a girlfriend. My parents picked up on it and did nothing. Said nothing. Took me to go hang out with her alone often.
Even now itβs really disgusting to think about. She is no longer alive so I canβt really do anything or tell her it was fucked up.
I have a hard time connecting to people. I think thatβs why.
kinda like the ISAIP episode, where Dee said dennis was 'raped" when he said he bedded an older lady at 14, then the realization sunk in for him after being confused for a second.
Iβm proud of your daughter, too π
Everyone has known a woman like this π₯Ί can't criticize what she's been through but she's out there perpetuating harm and you can't make her see that
It took my mom decades to see the truth about what happened to her as a little girl. She didn't tell my grandmother until a couple years ago. Heartbreaking.
It's one of the many reasons that blaming victims should be called out each and every time. It's imperative to be honest about these crimes and to believe victims when they come forward.
It's imperative to be honest about these crimes and to believe victims when they come forward.
That is also not without its problems.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Duke_lacrosse_rape_hoax?wprov=sfla1
The Duke case resulted from a journalist who thought doing an investigation would be the same as disbelieving a victim, and editors who agreed. Now rape-apologists have a bloody shirt to wave around.
I'm for provisionally believing people, but also not rushing to judgement in each and every case. We can do both.
The rate of false claims is much, much lower than actual rape and sexual assault. Itβs not non-existent, but we shouldnβt immediately assume a rape victim is lying.
More often than not, the default is to dismiss and downplay claims.
For the one case at Duke, I can pull dozens (probably hundreds) of real rape cases at universities.
The law favors rapists. I realized a long time ago, just by women that I have known, that the statistics on rape are accurate and also low. I also realized that most men donβt understand that because they are not men who a woman would open up to about that. As for men who are worried about catching false charges, I would say that statistically you are more likely to get raped by another man than catch a fake charge. And because everything favors the rapist, he will probably get away with it.
As a man, I can confirm this. It took me being raped (and a few years of bottling it up to even consciously come to the realisation that I was indeed raped) to do away with nearly two decades of indirect conditioning by "lad culture" and mass media et al to see why it goes unreported most of the time.
(mind you I was raped by a woman, AND the same woman falsely accused me of rape, harassment, and a number of other awful things)
You are not alone in this brother. I was laughed out of my local police department when I attempted to file a report. I went back later when a woman officer was present and she took me seriously. Of course the court system was another story.
When I was about 5 my then 3 year old sister was sexually abused by our adoptive mother's husband at the time. I don't really have a good memory, but I understand that I was drugged and maybe also messed with too. They took my sis to the hospital and confirmed the abuse took place.
The dude got a slap on the wrist, honestly. A few years jail (I think?) and a divorce - leaving behind a single mother on a teacher's salary with 2 kids that he doesn't even owe child support for. They both made the decision to adopt and he just got right out of any responsibility for that.
For us as kids, it meant lots of talking to professionals who barely got anything out of us. I mean, we were afraid. All we had was each other in the whole world and it seemed like we couldn't even trust our own parents, so what do we do? Instead we grew up with little faith in family and no faith in a "God" who turned their back or a country who didn't give a damn.
You did nothing wrong. You're not alone. You don't have to suffer in silence. Tell your story. You never know who might really need to hear it.
The sheer amount of violence that women and children are expected to absorb as normal in order to maintain the illusion of a civilized society is honestly staggering to look at.
Now here's the fun thing. The undue pressure it puts on men is toxic as fuck too. This doesn't benefit anyone!
For anyone curious, they're apparently finally reopening the Cornel 7 rape case for the dudes who had to write an essay for gangraping a woman for what amounts to a working shift....
This is one of those comics where I have no clue what's actually going on and who Jane Doe is and subsequently want to look it up but then realise that I really don't need that information in my life, it's probably a harrowing and dreadful story. I'm gonna enjoy my blissful ignorance and listen to ride the cyclone instead.
If you do decide to looks it up, the reach term to find stories about this event is below
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Cornell 7. In 2024, A group of 7 frat fuck sticks gang raped a woman for 7 hours. Their only punishment was to write an essay. Cornell swept it under the rug.
Jane Doe is a pseudonym used to represent the (female) victim in court documents when the victim's identity and/or privacy shall be protected.
Now she's getting death threats because she dared speak up
I was horrified to see that she was swatted the other day. They literally tried to kill her by police.
I remember My mother thinking the TV series Mad Men was too real because she worked in the late 70s and was sexually harassed as a 20 year old.
It's all wild to me, The reception in my office are all like my little sisters, I just want to protect them and annoy them.
Wow, that's a powerful one.