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Hey all! Actually been awhile since i posted on mtf. But i need yalls help pretty please

I need a middle name! I just recently thought about the fact i dont have one. I used to have one, so i feel i do need a new one. Old one is gross, ~~sebastion~~ is outta here. Cant have that coming after brooke lmao

So i asked Nissa, the very awesome girl that she is, and she came up with 25 different ones. And since i cant decide really myself, please tell me what you think. Would be much appreciated!

Im of the school of thought that i didnt get to choose my birthname, so i wont let myself choose my new name. Instead, i have special people name me! My partner (gave me brooke) and nissa and you all get to pick my middle! This place has been so important to me lately, it feels right 😊

Anywayyyyy heres what nissa came up with, and yes last name is fields lol:

Brooke Marigold Fields

Brooke Iris Fields

Brooke Summer Fields

Brooke Autumn Fields*

Brooke Estelle Fields

Brooke Jasmine Fields*

Brooke Mangolia Fields

Brooke Sage Fields

~~Brooke Sofia Fields~~ cant have this one, for reasons

Brooke Twila Fields

Brooke Tallulah Fields

Brooke Sequoia Fields

Brooke Lyric Fields*

Brooke Violeta Fields

Brooke Elowen Fields

Brooke Meldy Fields

Brooke Midna Fields

Brooke Hylia Fields*

Brooke Saria Fields*

Brooke Malon Fields

Brooke Medli Fields

Thanks to anyone taking the time! Ones with asterisks are my personal favs for right now. I reserve the right to play favorites πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Stay beautiful girls ❀️❀️❀️

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[–] LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 3 days ago (1 children)

As an Autumn, I think you should go with Autumn. It suits you and goes well with your first and last. Plus Autumn is just a cute name in general, though I may be biased haha

Haha awww thanks for deeming me worthy of the title πŸ˜…

Im really leaning autumn at this point too, seems to be the most popular ❀️❀️

[–] irotsoma@piefed.blahaj.zone 10 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Brooke Autumn Fields is my favorite. It just rolls off the tongue really well and gives me the most warm fuzzies for whatever reason lol.

Youre not alone, autumn seems a strong contender, plus i love it too! Gives me autumn forest thoughts, which is perfect cause i love the forest ❀️

[–] AzuraTheSpellkissed@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

When I picture you, I like Summer or Autumn most. It might be a cultural thing though, as I barely know any of the other words.

Anyways, a name that radiates warmth or that is bloomy fits you well. Nissa you did a great job, hun!

I'm surprised by how much weight is put on the initials in the comments.

I didnt consider initials at first, but sometimes you have to use them. Pretty rarely tho lol

Its not high school tho i doubt anyone will make fun of my initials lmao, theres bigger things they could pick on πŸ˜‚

[–] That_Bitch_Is_Cily@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Brooke Autumn gives me such incredibly cozy vibes, I love that one the most.

Super about it! Its definitely in top 3 for sure ❀️

[–] MsFlammkuchen@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I like how a lot of these interact so well with your last name. I really like to think about fields of flowers. But my favorite is Autumn Fields closely followed by Summer Fields. Autumn Fields make me think of the freshly harvested fields and winds strong enough to fly kites.

Autumn is a top contender for sure ❀️❀️

[–] Domi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Autumn autumn autumn! It's so perfect! Autumn fields. I love it so MUCH.

I know right!? I slept on it and is still my favorite ❀️

[–] Nikki@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

i like the flowery ones considering your last name :)

True, perfect last name for that!

Just some flower ones make for some unfortunate initials lol πŸ˜‚

[–] hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I can't help but notice how many in the list of names are plants, and that none of them are native to western Oregon.

May I suggest Brooke Azallea Fields after the western azalia?

Or perhaps Brooke Anna Fields after Anna's hummingbird. I think the name works and the have red plumage on their heads.

Of the ones already on the on the list, my favorite is Brooke Summer Fields. I think the last name Fields is somewhat limiting as a tree based middle name like Sequoia or Ponderosa doesn't play nice with it.

I hope you find a name that feels just right!

Thats a good point, sister who came up with these is in a different place so makes sense lol

I like these suggestions alot, i keep them in mind ❀️❀️

[–] riskable@programming.dev 6 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I'm not involved in this community, but I browse "All" so I see everyone's stuff. So as a total outsider, take my opinion with a grain of salt but...

Brooke Strawberry Fields would be forever remembered πŸ˜πŸ‘

Second place is Brooke Magnetic Fields which sounds both scientific and a medalist.

Third place would be Brooke Meadow Fields which sounds like a walking national monument πŸ—½

...and once you settle on a name, stick with it! Brooke No Argument!

I cant with strawberry fields omg the amount of time people have sang that to my family is unreal, even without the strawberry lmaoπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

[–] Bryllyg@quokk.au 6 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

Brooke Mangolia Fields
Was this one a typo? If so, Brooke Magnolia Fields sounds very pretty to me and then you get BMF as initials:
Bad Motor Finger etc

Edit: Brooke Autumn is a strong choice too

Haha yeah probly a typo πŸ˜…

Bmf is tempting as initials ❀️

everyone in my family has patronymic middle names. Luckily they're gendered so I can (for example) change Chekhov to Chekhovna to change the gender.

[–] Shirow@lemmy.zip 5 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Marigold, Summer or Autumn

This is to me the best ones :3

(My initials right now are ED... It has never been so wrong even with low T :3)

I hope I can change my deadname soon.

Omg its my dream to one day officially change my name 😍😍

But for now i just need a full name to give anyone thatll take that over legal name lmao

[–] TRAHR@quokk.au 5 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I’m voting for Summer, it’s a nice friendly sounding name.

[–] brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)
[–] TRAHR@quokk.au 3 points 3 days ago

At least it's not Brooke June Fields πŸ˜›

[–] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 4 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Autumn or Summer. You seem more summery but then you'd be BS Fields.

[–] brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Haha true i didnt even think of that! πŸ˜‚

[–] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 4 points 4 days ago (1 children)

You have to consider initials. My top choices for a first name begin with k, as does my last name. So I have to be pretty fucking careful about what I pick as a middle name.

[–] brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Omg nooooo i could see why!

Initials is not something i initially considered πŸ˜‚

You should also steer clear of Brooke Octavia Olivia Fields and Brooke Amanda Rachel Fields.

[–] kivihiili@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

elowen seems super fitting to you! and saria works nicely too. <3

[–] kivihiili@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 4 days ago (1 children)

thinking about it a little more, probably saria!

"Brooke Saria Fields" and "Brooke S. Fields"

we think it works best if you put the stress on the "ri" part of it :)

I do agree but the pronunciation is tough, maybe an accent letter for the r/i would help.

Plus i get two or three pronunciations from internet, (im bad at phonetic spelling please forgive me) theres SAH-rye-ah, SAY-ree-ah or like SA-re-ah or SA-rye-ah

Idk its weird lmao thanks you all for the input ❀️❀️

[–] minty@aussie.zone 4 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I like Brooke Jasmine Fields! Very pretty name!

Also in my own name changing process Im going on I straight up forgot I had a middle name. Guess I'll have to come up with something lol.

Its easy to forget about lol