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Wish me luck! I'm about 10bpm away from a heart attack ๐Ÿ˜ญ

Edit: After removing my hoodie and revealing my top, my mother gave me the dirtiest look I've ever received from her. She complimented my jorts and belt, that was it. This sent me into a really bad dysphoric spiral. Grandma keeps misgendering me. Everyone treating me like a person feels forced. Currently crying in the bathroom. I want to die

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[โ€“] Lehmuusa@nord.pub 5 points 41 minutes ago (1 children)

I'm super envious for your style! (And body, you're lucky with that one!)

And it feels horrible what you now tell your relatives have done with you. It's entirely unfounded. What did your cousin think of your style?

[โ€“] AnxiousMiisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 23 minutes ago

He didn't even see me properly. I swapped my pretty red top for a T shirt and a bra under that.

I feel like a failure. Once, just once I wanted to wear something cute in front of other people and then this happens.

[โ€“] Maroon@lemmy.world 2 points 19 minutes ago (1 children)

No accessories? May I suggest a bracelet or a simple necklace to really bring out your features.

[โ€“] AnxiousMiisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 18 minutes ago

I did bring a bracelet actually. A gift from my best friend, brought from Bali. One made of small, round black lava rocks.

[โ€“] Cass@piefed.blahaj.zone 11 points 2 hours ago

Posts like this are slowly curing my internalized transphobia. You look awesome!

[โ€“] Shirow@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 hour ago

Wishing you luck you're looking awesome :3

[โ€“] Nikki@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 2 hours ago

have fun you look great :) love that top

[โ€“] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 hour ago

Good luck and all the best.

[โ€“] Shameless@lemmy.world 5 points 2 hours ago

I hope you get lots of nice compliments

[โ€“] KurtVonnegut@mander.xyz 1 points 1 hour ago

Keep us updated!

[โ€“] Cabslock@lemmy.world 9 points 3 hours ago

Hell yeah, you go girl!

[โ€“] SatansDaughter@quokk.au 10 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

You look amazing, so jealous. Hope it goes well

[โ€“] AnxiousMiisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Thank you! Hope so too.

I'm about to die ๐Ÿ˜ญ

[โ€“] phr@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 2 hours ago

you'll do great. :)