"Damn bro what happened to that chick you had over the other day? She was way prettier than this one"

Yes but, if you have someone in the house god damn put on some clothes. This is like one of those "don't force me into your kink" things.

Used to have "Naked Tuesdays" with another couple we were friends with years ago. Just the four of us hanging out naked watching TV, maybe some other things happening. If you weren't looking at anyone else, why even bother?

oh, i’ve always found it kind of funny, actually.

the fediverse/lemmy have a very progressive demographic, but they can also be surprisingly prudish when it comes to anything sex-related, especially when it’s coming from a female perspective.

after being on here for months, i’ve somehow been branded as “the horny poster,” even though most of my posts aren’t explicitly horny or freaky. they’re more observational, almost diaristic, in the way they approach these kinds of topics. for example, i don’t find this post horny or freaky at all.

I'm not comfortable with people hanging out naked around me and no amount of your "feeling sorry" is going to change that

feeling sorry for lots of the people in this thread and their prudish mindsets

Well why try and shame them for their culture?

No, its kinda weird to casually hang out naked, like what's the motivation behind it?

Oh… there are some clothing optional situations in life and for the most part nudity gets very normal very fast but there can be moments when an attractive woman is conspicuously putting her attractive self on parade and just daring you to notice. It’s like a clip from some mating dance on the nature channel somehow pasted onto humans.

A horny wet dream fantasy.

If you don't play their power game then they wind up with a recording of you saying that which they'll save indefinitely in case you ever run for political office.

Also so they can assassinate your character if you ever mildly inconvenience them.

Perfect username for this comment.

But also, it just depends. Sometimes it’s about the party, place, and people.

I don’t talk about it much in normal spaces, but a subset of my friends group is fairly routinely naked or (with consent) randomly and casually sexually interacting with others.

At the most recent party with this group, they had to explicitly say the party was kid-friendly until a certain point, to avoid pink bits and inappropriate demonstrations from happening while children were there. (And also to ensure parents knew to get their kids out of there.)

Different rules for different groups, though. The point isn’t to make people uncomfortable or to play power games (doing that probably would lead to a conversation at minimum and possibly a loss of invitation to future parties), it’s to revel in the physical pleasure of interacting with others and to have fun with folks who like to express their exhbitionist tendencies. While also bitching about work and life and all the other things people do at parties.

But ...what if the tits aren't nice?

yeah this kind of stuff needs consent from everyone or you're just making people uncomfortable and that's not fun or very nice