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For me if I had to pick a good contender it would be the UK version of The Office.

I know many tend to debate how Ricky Gervais really fell off and how he repugnantly acts like a whiny centrist edgelord but me personally IMO I actually don't think he was ever funny not even a little.

His big break through television was just so painful to sit through it's so charismatically boring the characters are completely generic at best (notably Tim) or straight up insufferably unlikable at worst (especially the protagonist David FUCKING Brent) and most importantly the humour is just embarrassing.

Always seemed like The Thick Of It but without the nuisance tongue in cheek and charming satire.

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[–] 9point6@lemmy.world 87 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (4 children)

A big part of why many of the things in this thread haven't aged well, is because a lot of what made these shows original and unique was copied to death following the fame of the original.

If you weren't there for the original release of a piece of media, there's a good chance you're not necessarily seeing it in the context where the accolades make sense.

Seinfeld basically invented the 3 camera sitcom and a lot of the key tropes in the format. If you go back today having not watched it before, the vast majority of it just comes across as a boring sitcom, because every sitcom to follow took notes from the way they did Seinfeld.

It's the same with the UK office, it basically invented the modern mockumentary format as well as the cringe comedy era that followed (and gave us things like peep show). If you look back now without that context, it just looks like a generic combination of both those things.

[–] ytsedude@lemmy.world 52 points 1 week ago

I believe "I Love Lucy" is credited with inventing or popularizing the three camera sitcom. Not to dampen's "Seinfeld"s contributions or the point of your comment, but I just wanted to add that small correction.

[–] marzhall@lemmy.world 20 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

Just to mention it, this is literally named the Seinfeld is Unfunny effect on TVTropes

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[–] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 19 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Seinfeld didn't invent the three camera sitcom, but it was important in creating modern sitcoms that didn't have a lesson to learn at the end of redeeming protagonists.

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[–] notsosure@sh.itjust.works 75 points 1 week ago (1 children)

My aunt Gisela promised to bring me into touch with my father. In reality, she simply darkened the room and, with a lowered voice, gave a bad imitation of my deceased dad. That’s one medium I could do without.

[–] TargaryenTKE@lemmy.world 15 points 1 week ago

Funny and original comment. Nicely done

[–] Terrapinjoe@lemmy.world 74 points 1 week ago (7 children)

The James Cameron Avatar movies.

[–] ccunning@lemmy.world 26 points 1 week ago (3 children)

They’re so bad.

…well the first one was. Didn’t bother with any after that…

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[–] LadyButterfly@reddthat.com 15 points 1 week ago (6 children)

Utter snoozefest I didn't get the hype at all

[–] LemmyFeed@lemmy.dbzer0.com 17 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I lost all respect for the movie and the entire franchise after hearing "unobtainium" as the name of the super rare space mineral. Nearly walked out of the theater.

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[–] OS2Warp@lemmy.zip 72 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] Kennystillalive@feddit.org 49 points 1 week ago (6 children)

For me it's Friends. I don't get all the hype about it until today. I tried watching a few episodes but it was nothing special. It was just a sitcom, nothimg special about it.

[–] Deestan@lemmy.world 48 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It was special because "everyone" watched it. The meh or bad parts were whatever, while the exciting or good parts were something you could talk with all your friends about at school. This made the good parts uniquely good.

So unless you happened to both be alive and watch it when it ran, it just won't be amazing.

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[–] EndlessNightmare@reddthat.com 38 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

Disturbed's cover of "Sound of Silence." I like the original Simon & Garfunkel, or at least the more upbeat version of it. And I like Disturbed (see below). But this cover absolutely blows.

Yes, I know the lead singer is a grade A shitbag. I liked the band long before I knew anything about any of it and have since stopped listening to them.

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[–] WolfLink@sh.itjust.works 35 points 1 week ago (5 children)
[–] Voroxpete@sh.itjust.works 18 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The worst part is how it's fans seem to think it's a love letter to "nerd culture" (whatever the fuck that is) and endlessly bring it up if you dare mention any interest in comics, roleplaying games or anything in that vein. "Oh you'll love this show, it's all about that nerdy stuff."

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[–] boaratio@lemmy.world 31 points 1 week ago (12 children)

Dave Matthews band. Also, any "jam" band in general.

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[–] SwissArmyKazoo@lemmy.world 31 points 1 week ago (5 children)

The US Office is unironically a better show because it understood what path it wanted to take as it went on and stop trying to rely heavily on cringe comedy to focus more on absurdist but still relatable scenarios.

[–] cRazi_man@europe.pub 21 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

There's a huge regional and cultural aspect to what you're saying. You're comparing slapstick in-your-face American comedy to subtle cringe British comedy. The Office is an excellent example since it is exactly the same script used in both initially. Watching S1E1 for British vs American version is an excellent comparison of styles. I don't like British comedy particularly and don't even like The Office, but watching both back to back, I would prefer the British version.

There are a number of amazing British comedies. They are very different to American. British comedies are understated and a bit miserable. Try "I'm Alan Partridge".....such an amazing comedy.

Equally I've tried watching Curb Your Enthusiasm with British friends and a large portion can't stand that for how cringe it is ¯\_(ツ)_/¯.

There's no superior choice in matters of art and taste. Just different flavours.

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[–] Foreigner@lemmy.world 26 points 1 week ago (6 children)

Have a few in mind:

Catcher in the Rye. Holden is insufferable and I found it baffling that adults expected me to relate to him as a teen.

Grease aged very poorly and I do not understand the hype (is it because John Travolta is wearing tight pants?)

Family guy. The ship that launched a thousand cringe as fuck "adult animation" shows. Yes, I'm salty as hell about it.

[–] chunes@lemmy.world 14 points 1 week ago (3 children)

It terrifies me that there are people walking around out there who feel seen by Holden Caulfield.

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[–] mavu@discuss.tchncs.de 25 points 1 week ago (7 children)

3 body problem. What a fucking terrible shit waste of paper.

[–] Voroxpete@sh.itjust.works 16 points 1 week ago (9 children)

The worst part is that if you somehow drag yourself through the first book and rightly declare that it sucks, fans will all say "Oh, yeah, the first book is bad, but it gets sooooo much better after that!"

This is a fucking lie. The books actually get progressively worse at a genuinely shocking rate.

Do you like reading a series of Wikipedia articles about all these really cool ideas the author had? Do you like being slapped in the face with moments of truly egregious sexism? Do you like characters with zero defining traits? Do you like entire plotlines built around Death Note style "I know that you know that I know that you know that I know..." style bullshit that falls apart the moment you think about it for five seconds? Do you like like awful solutions to the Fermi Paradox? Oh boy do we have the book series for you!

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[–] RodgeGrabTheCat@sh.itjust.works 24 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Anything anime. Lots love it, I hate it.

[–] lonefighter@sh.itjust.works 16 points 1 week ago

Not liking anime is so isolating as a nerd because people find out I'm into nerdy stuff and all they want to do is recommend anime to me and talk about anime and I have to explain that I don't like anime and won't be watching that show they love (insert show here).

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[–] dreksob@feddit.online 24 points 1 week ago (9 children)

It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia.

Its not just that the humor is unfunny (and basically just bigotry porn with a side of cringe), its that none of the "friends" in the show are even friends with each other. The whole show is just a bunch of assholes being bigoted assholes and then you are supposed to think that its funny.

[–] bluesheep@sh.itjust.works 21 points 1 week ago

Well, yeah, the whole show is based around each character being the worst narcissistic and self-serving asshole you can imagine, and then some.

I personally find it really funny, but I can sort of see why some people don't like it

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[–] GrayBackgroundMusic@lemmy.zip 24 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Kinda surprised I didn't see breaking bad already listed. I guess I'm one of the few who dislikes it. I don't like tragedies in general. Life is already a tragedy.

I'm sure it was extremely well executed and totally worth making, but it's not my flavor of ice cream.

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[–] Lemminary@lemmy.world 22 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Sports. I have little tolerance for it because every time a big event is on, people get incredibly obnoxious. They think they know better than the professional players, they keep making so much noise, it polarizes people into arbitrary bands and start talking shit like using that as an excuse to be a homophobic POS, sometimes they'll even riot because their team lost/won (da fuk), and even kill people over their favorite fucking team, and so much more. If the game is on I'd rather steer clear because it really brings out the worst in people.

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[–] SwissArmyKazoo@lemmy.world 22 points 1 week ago (10 children)

Woah surprised no one mentioned South Park yet, it quite common in discussions like this.

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[–] Armok_the_bunny@lemmy.world 22 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Harry Potter, even ignoring how much of a piece of shit the author is the books just aren't particularly well thought out.

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[–] lonefighter@sh.itjust.works 18 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Star Wars. I really wanted to like it, I'm a huge nerd, but I just am not into it. I watched 4 and 5 and got maybe an hour into 6 and got up and walked away. I was so bored with the whole thing.

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[–] ccunning@lemmy.world 18 points 1 week ago (9 children)

Blade Runner
2001: A Space Odyssey
Citizen Kane

These movies are so well regarded and spoken so highly of (ok - maybe not Blade Runner); their champions are so passionate and enthusiastic, every time I hear folks go off on how great they are I get, once again, excited to watch them. But every time I try, I just can’t get into them. 2001 is a particular slog with its ~30 minute intro of no dialogue. It almost inevitably puts me to sleep before even the first word is spoken.

I hate that they’re so well regarded and I really want to enjoy them but I just can’t get into them.

[–] tal@lemmy.today 15 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Citizen Kane

@9point6@lemmy.world has a comment below stating that some of these are examples where a piece of media did something new and innovative that was so compelling that many subsequent pieces of media copied it, and thus whatever it was that the piece of media did failed to impress later audiences. For them, it was just the new normal. So the work was very influential...but maybe no longer stands out.

I've often seen Citizen Kane cited as being the poster child for this.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Citizen_Kane

The film's narrative structure, cinematography and themes have influenced countless filmmakers and films worldwide, asserting its place as a cornerstone in the history of cinema

EDIT:

https://thecinemaholic.com/citizen-kane-innovations-flaws/

‘Citizen Kane’: The Innovations, the Flaws, and the Films that it Influenced

EDIT2: @marzhall@lemmy.world linked to the Seinfeld is Unfunny trope on TVTropes, and it has an entry for Citizen Kane:

Citizen Kane, oftentimes trumpeted as "The Greatest Movie of All Time," tends to inspire "what's the big deal?" responses from modern viewers, especially since Post Modern movies have become the norm and the cinematography has influenced so many other films. And everyone knows what the twist at the end is.

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[–] anon_8675309@lemmy.world 18 points 1 week ago (5 children)

American football. Fox turned it into a video game you can’t play.

Mens soccer. Stop with the fucking cry baby drama! Women’s soccer is better in this regards.

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[–] fibojoly@sh.itjust.works 18 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'm curious if you're from the UK, OP, because I think this colours your perception of the The Office very much. For the record I loathe both, but The Office UK is a typical British comedy of taking the absolute piss of the characters, who are irredeemable fools one and all. You re not supposed to find them funny, or like them. You're supposed to laugh at them. That's the usual expectation, with British comedy.

Americans seem to have great difficulty with that concept, and can't seem to handle a protagonist that is made fun of.

Again, not defending the show itself. Just saying you need to be aware of this approach when you watch British comedy in general. The common language should not make you forget the ocean of cultural differences in between.

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[–] bobbyfiend@retrolemmy.com 18 points 1 week ago

I'm just here to see if anyone has any wrong opinions about something I love.

Succession for me. I couldn’t stand it. The acting always felt way too self-conscious, like “look at me acting my ass off” instead of anything natural. The dialogue and humor felt really try-hard too, and I hated the cinematography, especially all those weird close-up shots.

[–] mittyta@lemmy.world 16 points 1 week ago (9 children)

I am trying to watch "The Wire" (on ep. 10) because it is one the highest rated show on imdb, but it doesn't click in me. It is high quality product. Acting, music, camera work are all good. But is just boring for me, and I force myself to do it.

Same was with The Sopranos btw.

P. S. Ricky Gervais is funniest comedian for me. I watched his Life's Too Short, After Life and I like it a lot. For me it's very funny and bravely. Never watched British The office, may be shouldn't, thanks.

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[–] mlg@lemmy.world 16 points 1 week ago

The Office (All versions) because the movie "Office Space" exeedingly outshines the humor and plot of any of the TV shows.

As with most "comedy" shows it's actually a drama disguised with a specific setting and a couple of meme characters to make it look like a comedy.

I'm convinced people only watched that stuff because they were all in on office drama at work/school but didn't want to admit to that fact.

[–] ikidd@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 1 week ago

I thought the American version of The Office wasn't much better. Just constant cringe humor, it's exhausting.

[–] Voroxpete@sh.itjust.works 16 points 1 week ago (7 children)

You're right and you should say it. Ricky Gervais has always been weird and off-putting and the idea that he was ever good has always baffled me. I never enjoyed The Office. When my dad tried to get me into Extras I just found all of Ricky's parts annoying. When my sister told me how great Derek was, I just found the whole thing simultaneously tasteless and bland, like it couldn't commit to being offensive but didn't put the work into being real. His standup is often clever, but always the kind of clever that is let down by a complete lack of emotional intelligence. The man just does not understand people, but thinks he really does.

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[–] Paradachshund@lemmy.today 16 points 1 week ago (4 children)

I've got a good one: Andor. People can't stop raving about it and I had to force myself to finish it. Deathly boring all the way through. I didn't like anyone in it so I couldn't root for anyone, and it was just a slog til the end. Crucify me star wars fans, I know you want to. 😇

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[–] justdaveisfine@piefed.social 15 points 1 week ago (2 children)

This is going to be a semi-spicy take, but World of Warcraft.

I had a lot of friends who were into it during Cataclysm but I had a hard time getting into it despite it being THE game everyone was obsessing over. It got to the point where I was struggling to get them to play anything else and it pretty much split our gaming group.

Even after all these years, some of them still play it and its still a big piece of their gaming sessions.

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[–] tal@lemmy.today 14 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (5 children)

The Game of Thrones TV series.

I really enjoyed the George R. R. Martin novels that they were based on, but the TV series just didn't do it for me.

I did enjoy the Lord of the Rings movies, so I know that it's possible to do film adaptations of fantasy novels that do click with me.

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[–] MuttMutt@lemmy.world 14 points 1 week ago

Friends...

I would rather watch women's tennis or a fishing show. I don't fish, I don't play tennis.

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