lonefighter

Their goal is to make sure that when they go down there is no one left to hold them accountable. They're making sure everyone else goes down before them. This regime will never be held accountable, Trump should be in jail right now and the government and the courts all decided that would be unfair to the poor orange billionaire who never emotionally matured beyond a whiny spoiled child who is bitter that the other kids don't like him and is determined to make them pay instead of learning how to get along and share his toys.

I have ADHD. I can usually hold my shit together at work, and I work 16 hour shifts. Some days my coworkers will notice enough to ask me if I've taken my meds, but most days I appear pretty chill. I'll bet if you asked the majority of my coworkers they'd tell you I'm not ADHD.

What they don't see is me going home and sobbing on the floor from the sheer effort and desperation of trying holding my shit together and not fuck up in ways that I can't fix. I'm terrified every fucking day that today will be the day I fuck up enough that I can't hide how bad my brain actually is anymore and I'll make a critical error and I'll lose my job. I don't have a backup plan or someone to catch me if I fail, I'll just be homeless at the end of the month when I can't make rent.

This is such a good answer and I hate that it's true.

I also am a one income household and also am no stranger to having to choose "rent or groceries" on a regular basis. I hate that you can't get food assistance unless you make minimum wage, but where I live they release analysis every year that a single adult needs to make at least 3x minimum wage just to be able to afford to exist with a one bedroom apartment at market rates and that's without having extra money for savings, hobbies, or going out.

I have fucked up so many things in my life but I will always be eternally grateful that I never fucked up and got pregnant.

The Lemmy version is: "guys I want to install Linux because I'm not comfortable with Windows but I'm not a tech genius and I just want a computer that I can install the OS and not have to worry about it again because I don't have a lot of free time and I don't want to have to spend hours troubleshooting it ever and I don't understand any of the terms you guys throw around when you're discussing Linux. I don't know what OS to choose or how to set up the post install and I'm super confused, I hear you talk about repos, and incompatibility with drivers, and picking different options that I don't understand what they are or how to choose and it's like you're all speaking a different language." "well if you want to rot with Windows then you deserve to have all your personal data stolen, it's a willing choice you made at this point you idiot, why are you even here?"

Update, if anyone is interested. Kitty is ok, but things ended up being worse than the vet realized. Externally everything looked good except needing a cleaning and the vet thought maybe a tooth might need extracted, but when they did X-rays 4 of his teeth were being resorbed by his body and the roots were basically gone, so they needed to be pulled. Poor guy is doing good, very unhappy about his current life situation and will be medicated and in a cone for the next 2 weeks, but I'm glad it's taken care of and he's home.

Emergency room wait times in my area are regularly 8+ hours because uninsured, underinsured, or just plain dumb people can't or won't go see their doctor and go to the Emergency room for all their medical care because they know they can't be turned away. So you have someone sitting in the Emergency room waiting to take a pregnancy test that they could have just bought at the pharmacy next to someone who has had a cold for a week and thinks the ER docs have some magic pill to make them instantly better. Meanwhile they're also trying to treat things like strokes and heart attacks and major traumas and non life threatening but legitimate emergencies like major broken bones and more acute illnesses. Everyone is miserable and no one wins except the insurance companies.

Oof, I don't know how I'd function if I had a toddler. Single parents amaze me, I can barely function as a single person. I have pretty bad ADHD and work is an absolute white knuckle struggle, but I have absolutely no one since my last relationship failed and I don't want to be homeless so I cry a lot at home and then slap a smile on and grind through my shift.

Vet bills are the worst, but my cats don't have the option to do anything about their situation or choose to work different jobs or change things about their life so it feels wrong to decline medical care and potentially make them suffer when they don't get a say in the matter. I can make that choice for myself and my own medical care, but it feels cruel to make that choice for them, you know? They're stuck in whatever life I give them, so I try to make it better than mine.

I hope your cat is ok!

Kitty will be ok, thank you. Just needs teethies taken care of. If we're lucky not pulled, just anesthesia and deep cleaned, so not really surgery, but still expensive as hell. If not lucky, teeth pulled and painkillers, so more like surgery. He goes in tomorrow, both of us will be very unhappy.

Reading this while working a shift that will put me at 85 hours of work this week. Will be able to buy groceries this month and pay for the surgery my cat needs. Also, am tired AF.

I have 2 cats that both need prescription food or else they get UTIs and urinary crystals and I'm not exaggerating when I say that I spend more monthly on their food than mine. Last week I was putting on my boots getting ready to go off to work another 16 hr OT shift and they were both sitting at my feet crying and I was like hey this is your fault you two are expensive I would prefer to be playing video games right now.

I had a boss who used to tell me "my job is to get the most out of you for the least amount of money"

I used to tell him "you're paying me $12 hr, you get $12 hr of work out of me."

When corporate doubled our workload and refused to let us hire more people he started getting up our asses about working harder, because the workload was piling up. I said "well, if the work doesn't get done you and the other manager have to answer for it, not me, I'm still leaving at 5, figure it out." My coworker and I were supposed to be doing the work that 5 people were doing at another location, and my coworker stood in solidarity with my open rebellion.

My boss had to do his job plus help me and my coworker with ours to keep corporate off his back :)