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lemmy is populated with people who were banned from reddit for exactly this or left reddit thinking it was a zionist conspiracy vehicle
you are infinitely more mentally healthy than them, congratulations
I wish more "normies" used non-corporate forums/social-platforms... was looking for more freedom of speech... wasn't looking for an island of exiles throwing rocks at me for not being an extremist like them...
Oh well, I guess it sort of is like a pirate ship, you leave the empire (Reddit) and you get dudes in eyepatches stab you... freedom, but at what cost?
I guess "touch grass" is what I need afterall lmao
We're all just coping and saying things online
Bunch of cowards
There was a non-violent option back in 2024.
Tried that, didn't work. I was outvoted.
The people talking about political violence are so chronically online and unserious. The real way to "rise up" involves talking to your neighbors and coworkers, forming and supporting unions, monitoring and obstructing fascist goals, etc. Real boring everyday things not superhero movie shit.
Here's a handy guide on how to get involved in that sort of stuff, for anyone else reading.
Part 1: The big picture ๐ผ๏ธ
The protests are good ways of meeting like-minded people in your community to form connections, as well as spreading awareness of local mutual aid groups so more can join or form ICE resistance groups who can join an encrypted chat to coordinate, alert neighbors, and talk strategy. It also is a good place for unions or union members to encourage others to unionize their workplaces, which can also ultimately work toward a national general strike, which is our most tangible and powerful collective action.
The country would be brought to its knees if suddenly deprived of profit and labor, allowing us to directly demand real changes (such as ending the war in Iran, ceasing support for the genocide of Palestine, and Abolishing ICE).
The General Strike was extremely effective in Chile in 2019, and had they not fallen for the trick of liberal reform, they would've had a successful revolution on their hands with virtually no bloodshed.
There are some concrete steps all of us can take toward enacting that hard-core general strike to make it more viable and bearable for us all. (the titles below expand if you click them).
Part 2: Learn First Aid โ๏ธ
Violence is being used against those who resist and it will only continue. It extremely important to have the skills to be able to keep yourself and others alive if they get hurt.
Tacticool Girlfriend provides a great introduction to building a personal first aid kit, called an IFAK, which can deal with things like bullet wounds and other serious bleeding wounds. I also want to emphasize her recommendation of only buying medical gear from reputable sources (not Amazon!), such as North American Rescue to avoid fakes that could cost you your life.
But you'll need to learn how to use that equipment, too. The best resource for that is to take a local Stop The Bleed class, which are pretty widely available in most places. They may cost a small fee, but can also sometimes be free. Alternatively, if you cannot access a local class, this video by PrepMedic will give you a solid understanding of how to use Tourniquets and Gauze for wound packing.
Injuries are less harmful if they are tended to early. Learning first aid can help conserve resources when healthcare becomes unaffordable. Having several medics in case of harm by police is an extremely powerful morale booster during a protest that may become a police riot. When you become comfortable with the basics of first aid, riot medicine is the next suggested step.
Part 3: Establish or join local Mutual Aid networks โ
If you haven't already, get to know your neighbors. Mutual aid is a willingness to support and grow your community. This can include informal networks through friends, tenant/renter organizations, solidarity groups, and industrial unions.
These are groups using direct action to solve each other's problems. Building strong communities makes it difficult for fascism to take root. The actions of the government are going to hit every community hard, and the ones who build trust in each other and work together are most likely to survive. We've been building a list of resources in !inperson@slrpnk.net to help you on your way. Also check out this handy guide to find existing groups in your area.
This isn't only for your own community protection. Your ability to organize today will change the political landscape tomorrow. When revolution occurs, the social organizations that show the greatest resilience through the regime are the ones typically calling the shots when the dust settles. When it comes to elections, get out the vote drives are useless if most of the voters are fascists. At some point, you have to do grassroots political education if you don't want fascist candidates winning elections. Mutual aid networks are excellent forums not only for teaching each other good political ideas, but demonstrating them in practice.
There's also some projects you can do that help build community (and can be fun in themselves!), for more info, go here, and scroll down to the "Fun Projects to Build Community) section"
Part 4: Join a Union to help prepare for a General Strike ๐ช
If you aren't in a union (or even if you are, it's worth dual-carding), consider joining the IWW to unionize your workplace (bonus: you'll get higher wages, better benefits, and more time off if you succeed!) to make a general strike possible.
Once you are in a union you and your coworkers will need to pressure your leadership to prepare for a general strike, as well as pressure them to organize with other unions to enact a general strike. This is especially true if you are in a more traditional union that isn't the IWW. Your local shop may need to organize directly with other unions if your union leaders are too cowardly to do so.
Most unions have a strike fund that can supplement your income during a general strike to make it more financially bearable (you should also save as much money as you can reasonably do, so it can also be used to keep yourself afloat during a strike). A General Strike is officially planned by the UAW for May 1st 2028, but it was planned before Trump was elected, and by then will be too late, so prepare now for one that may start sooner.
You can contact the IWW with the link below:
And for our international friends, you should join one as well, as fascism is gaining momentum globally. If your country isn't listed below, just contact the IWW directly in the link above, and they'll help you set up a new local branch.
- ๐ฆ๐ท Argentina: FORA
- ๐ฆ๐บ Australia: ASF-IWA
- ๐ง๐ท Brazil: FOB
- ๐ง๐ฌ Bulgaria: ARS, CITUB
- ๐ฉ๐ช Germany: FAU
- ๐ฌ๐ท Greece: ESE
- ๐ฎ๐น Italy: USI
- ๐ฎ๐ช Ireland: IWW Ireland
- ๐ณ๐ฑ ๐ง๐ช Netherlands & Belgium: Vriji Bond
- ๐ช๐ธ Spain: CNT
- ๐ธ๐ช Sweden: SAC
- ๐ฌ๐ง United Kingdom: UVW
Part 5: Adopt Security Culture and Digital Camouflage ๐ก๏ธ
Sometimes benign seeming efforts can turn into unexpected personal data collecting traps. Like an obscure website for exchanging contact info with other students turning into a global ad-tech surveillance network (Facebook), or innocent seeming online personality tests being use to harvest character profiles. Even Etsy, Reddit, Tinder, and Duolingo are feeding information to US Government Agencies like ICE.
Security culture is commonly used to describe the general awareness of such potential traps and how it can affect groups or entire communities. This goes beyond mere individual privacy efforts, as without joint efforts these often fail to work.
Especially in activist circles, security culture is paramount. For opsec reasons not everyone in the group might be aware of what clandestine efforts others are involved in, but with a general security culture many potential data leaks can be avoided.
Movements are made by the volume of their participants, and the easier and less dangerous it is to participate, the more people will get involved. As more people get involved, individual involvement becomes even less dangerous, creating a virtuous cycle.
We'll start it off with some General Advice:
- Mentally wall off personal uniquely identifying info from your online presence, actively build a habit of opsec so that withholding information is your default mental state
- Be careful about who you meet online
- Use different, unrelated usernames, passwords & emails for every account. And try not to connect to those accounts with your real IP address (use Tor or a VPN)
- Be mindful that anything done online leaves a trail
- agents provocateurs may seek to find patsies willing to perform an ill-advised illegal activity in order to legitimize police repression. If someone is trying to pressure you, especially if you don't have a long and proven history with them, be extremely wary.
For a full guide on what encrypted communications platforms to use, and how to stay off the radar, read the Digital Camouflage section within the Monthly Meta post here (you'll need to scroll down. I'd add it here, but it won't fit in this comment).
I'd also highly recommend Full Spectrum Resistance to anyone who wants further info on how to resist (audiobook version here).
Are you sure the correct way to rise up isn't posting 200 edgy memes every day?
Anytime I see someone on Lemmy calling for a "Revolution" all I can think about, is that they probably have that one Nickelback song playing on repeat in their heads.
All pomp and posing with zero substance.
I'm offended. I have no less than TWO Nickelback songs on repeat: Photograph and How You Remind Me . I also have a SpongeBob track and always, somewhere where it's quiet and dark, the Littlest Hobo theme. And maybe Airwolf.
You think so little of me ;-)
superhero movie shit
The superhero movies did their job because 90% of it is bootlicking shit.
My great-grandfather wasn't a superhero but he did get a signed letter from Michael Collins advocating he be given a downstairs apartment because losing a leg overthrowing the Brits was just normal-heroic. You just have to be a normal-hero. Unfortunately sometimes that requires risk in a society that has been trained to avoid risk at all cost
I feel like a lot of Lemmy is basically armchair anarchism of people that feel left out by society one way or the other so they call out billionaires, warmongers, just generally people who have decided on our world's course for the last two millenia or so. But the farthest they're willing to go is make edgy comments or some out-of-context quote to underline their doom thinking.
I'm not gatekeeping anarchism or saying these people should take violent action, I'm just saying it's a noticeable trend. Every once in a while you'll see some anti-immigrant post or something anti-woke and it'll fee downvoted to oblivion and it'll be commented on a lot with no real arguments (don't feed the trolls) but just hate versus hate. Activism achieved for the day.
Or maybe they reject this type of society as it is dumb af, and find a comfort in likewise thinking community? I feel like Lemmy got flooden by people who like to create this image of casted, not normal, nerdy in bad way out of this community.
The one thing I've learned the most from lemmy is that I need to spend time offline building community in realspace.
I've rejoined my church, connected with local political organizers and started going to the range.
I remember someone sharing with me many months back a few (at the time) months old post about someone considering suicide due to their struggles and guess what? There was an upvoted comment with the exact fucking same sentiment and blunt wording leaving no room for misinterpretation. People are fucked. The post wasn't even political.
What's the problem? If you are going to kill yourself, why spare a little panache?
You're beyond pathetic. People like you are one of the saddest people I've ever encountered in my life. You're just ruining the space for everyone else and helping absolutely no one. You are harassing people while acting all smug about it with your silly little facade of it being for the greater good. You're as bad as the people you pretend to be against. That's a messed up thing to do to other people and enjoy.
Thank you that helps. I'll kill myself without panache then
I posted this before, but it seems relevant here. Not doing anything is also bad for my mental health. Organizing is probably the right answer.
There is a brutal man with a gun, controlling and threatening a group of good citizens with consciences. He's going to do terrible things to them, and make them do terrible things themselves.
They have him outnumbered, but he has the gun. If they rush him, they can easily defeat him. But, the first one or two or three or four people to move forward will be shot and probably die painfully. Going first is going to cost a terrible price and you don't know for sure that anyone else will follow you, that your sacrifice will be for anything at all.
You feel a little paralyzed and at the same time ashamed you are just standing there.
What happens next?
The Bastille was stormed by mostly women that couldn't take it anymore.
The men inside the prison probably thought they would die there. They probably thought whatever action landed them there was for nothing and they were doomed to rot.
You don't know the full effects of your actions until long after. Do your best to make the world a better place. Organize, connect with your friends, family, and neighbors. "The revolution" is not a single event that saves us all. The women that stormed the prison didn't know they were going to overthrow the I government.
We all have to do our best to care for each other.
Put aside a global network of armchair rebels egging others on from the comforts of their distant homes. Forget the real fear in your post that taking a stand has consequences. Forget that everything on the internet is manufactured for purpose and that includes foreign and domestic bot operations, all driving their own agendas. Calm your mind and think of this inspired piece of fiction from Hollywood - Andor's Rebel Manifesto.
There will be times when the struggle seems impossible. I know this already. Alone, unsure, dwarfed by the scale of the enemy. Remember this. Freedom is a pure idea. It occurs spontaneously and without instruction. Random acts of insurrection are occurring constantly throughout the galaxy. There are whole armies, battalions that have no idea that they've already enlisted in the cause. Remember that the frontier of the Rebellion is everywhere. And even the smallest act of insurrection pushes our lines forward. And then remember this. The Imperial need for control is so desperate because it is so unnatural. Tyranny requires constant effort. It breaks, it leaks. Authority is brittle. Oppression is the mask of fear. Remember that. And know this, the day will come when all these skirmishes and battles, these moments of defiance will have flooded the banks of the Empire's authority and then there will be one too many. One single thing will break the siege. Remember this. Try.
Just because it's fiction, doesn't mean it's not true.
This post is meaningless. The government is about to kill you anyways, please go be a martyr and do political violence.
This is like that episode of Rick and Morty... the Suicide Spaghetti episode
"Please just kys so we can eat the yummy spaghetti inside you" ๐
To be fair you already have the perfect user handle, so please donโt hesitate any longer.
His death is our salvation.
Thanks,
FBI (& rest of the world)
I agree. It almost seems that the establishment pushes people towards the uprising to justify the use of military against people.
I hope people will wise up and see beyond the 'divide and conquer' tactics and actually unite against the system but not violently.
I think there is a good chance for that. The Shitshow now is just so bad that barely anyone can stand behind it. And with all the push towards violence people are showing restraint to answer violently. .. imo
To be fair, Luigi and the tp fire guy have united us.
Certain users seem to make this their life goal. I despise them. I wish being an awful person was a bannable offense but instead we have to block them one by one in order to remove the unreasonable pieces of shit from our feeds. It's exhausting.
Nothing to say about the political violence that wouldn't be, well, political, so instead I'll ask: What the hell is up with your username?
Username or Display name?
You can tell them by the glow of their eyes
(1) Hilariouschaos and Lemmy.today are well-known to be the most "conservative" right-wing instances on the Threadiverse.
(2) Most of the most popular instances have alts of people on hexbear, lemmygrad.ml, and lemmy.ml - these people are very proud of the fact that no does not mean no to them but rather that they should push forward farther, i.e. they are terminally online people, sometimes called "incels" as in blaming everyone else for their own issues.
(3) The vast majority of people are extremely lazy. Rather than step up and do any real work - e.g. moderate or even just post to a community, or best of all contribute features to the source code that implements the Threadiverse, either in PieFed or Mbin or Lemmy or nodeBB (or Mastodon, Friendica, Pixelfed, Loops, etc.) - it is far easier to simply complain. Like if someone wants to Luigi someone else, then I can't stop anyone but neither do I have to listen to all that crap either, especially when the actual irl administration is just itching for such events to occur and then use them as an excuse to oh let's say abolish all voting within, oh let's say "city areas".
Their right to speak should not overrule your right to not have to listen. Then again... who is going to stop them? Your options include leaving all social media behind, including the Threadiverse, or massively curating your experiences here, either by blocking the largest communities and relying on mods of smaller ones (where the moderation work is more tractable) to do the filtering for you - e.g. !wholesome@reddthat.com is a fantastic example of a wonderful community free of such language, or the entire instance of behaw is famous for heavily curating every single comment in every single post to provide an environment free of trolling, the polar opposite of a "free speech" zone - or by doing that filtering yourself, blocking communities and users that choose to speak in that manner.
Btw PieFed offers many MANY automated tools to help with that, including keyword filters, visual icons placed next to "highly contentious" users (who e.g. receive 10x more downvotes than upvotes) so that you are alerted to their known reputation, automated collapsing or even outright hiding of content that has been heavily downvoted (I personally prefer to turn that off but if you want it... it is there for you), and more. iirc sh.itjust.works has announced that it will switch over from Lemmy to PieFed sometime in late 2026 or perhaps 2027, though you may want to not wait and get some experience with PieFed now. If you are actively wanting heavier curation of content to be done for you, then in that case I highly recommend PieFed.social with superb admins. You will still need to expend much effort curating your experiences on the Threadiverse, but the tools here make it much easier as opposed to nearly impossible. I almost left the Threadiverse entirely, but now with PieFed I feel that I can remain, and just block the enormous portions of it that are heavily calling for activities that will result in my literal, actual irl death.
At this point, there isnโt much left to use aside from political violence.
And if you look through the history of effective political change away from fascism and totalitarianism, itโs pretty much 0% peaceful protest and 100% violent revolution.
Letโs start with removing members of ICE from the gene pool. I advocate castration as a long-term option of eliminating any genetic influence of fascism on future generations (low IQ, genetic propensity for authoritarianism, genetic propensity for sociopathy, etc.), but others may be in favour of methods that can more permanently prevent these fascists from terrorizing existing citizens.
Is this ragebait?
Not in the least.
- History speaks volumes about the successes of violent revolution in the face of a violent state. It has almost zero examples of successful peaceful revolution against a violent state. Peaceful change only occurs against those who have a conscience, who have empathy. The current American administration fails utterly at conscience and empathy.
- The only good Nazi is a dead Nazi. Any member of ICE has willingly abrogated their right to be treated humanely. You donโt coddle a dog with rabies, you euthanize them. These people completely lack the mental faculties to exist cooperatively in polite society, and should be isolated in the same way we isolate serial killers and mass murderers.
It's just odd to me that you are advocating for genetic control over others who want to use genetic control over others...
Sorry, you can fuck right off with that "let's tolerate the intolerant" crap.
I'm not advocating on tolerating the intolerant. I'm simply not pro-eugenics...
You're the one that brought up eugenics and gene control. Eugenics has been so watered down that any act of violence can be labeled eugenics now.
The original comment was talking about forcibly removing genes from the gene pool for a "better humanity" so that card was already on the table
Right??? I feel like I'm taking crazy pills here that no one else is noticing the problem with that comment.
Eh. No different than ordering pedophiles to be chemically castrated. We're not talking about innocent people that have committed no crime here.
Or another way to view it, it's like taking kids away from bad abusive parents. If you take away the kids of an entire ethnic or cultural group, then you're doing genocide. If you just take kids away from child abusers, it's not genocide.
This is really in the spirit of the Darwin Awards, where idiots remove themselves from the gene pool. Not every mention of removing genes from the gene pool is an evil eugenics plot.
I'm just saying, that person didn't bring it up, rekibas did
Where the fucking hell did you get that out of the words they actually wrote? Fascism is not a genetically unique race of people; it's an ideology.

Why should I join your Empire when I can just...
Declare myself the Emperor!
MUHAHAHAHAHA ๐
proceeds to get regicided 5 seconds later
