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[–] cobysev@lemmy.world 29 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

The Gary Jules cover of Mad World, for the Donnie Darko soundtrack.

Similarly, the original song by Tears for Fears sounds really upbeat and happy, but you'd never know it was a sad song unless you paid attention to the lyrics. I love both versions!

[–] MalReynolds@slrpnk.net 3 points 2 weeks ago

Agreed, in a similar vein I am reminded of Dear God by XTC.

[–] MashedHobbits@lemy.lol 2 points 2 weeks ago

That is such a great cover.

[–] Substance_P@lemmy.world 17 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Hurt by Johnny Cash.

Fast Car by Tracy Chapman.

[–] cuboc@lemmy.world 7 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Hurt by Johnny Cash.

As much as I admire and respect Johnny Cash, I prefer the original bij Nine Inch Nails . Paging /c/unpopularopinion

[–] Apeman42@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago

The different renditions tell slightly different stories IMO. There's also a very fine bardcore version by Hildegard von Blingin' that changes it to the story of a regretful immortal by only altering maybe 20% of the lines. I like all three versions for different reasons.

[–] tychosmoose@lemmy.world 10 points 2 weeks ago

There are a lot. I have a long playlist called "mope" But the first song that came to mind is:

"Blue Valentine" by Tom Waits. https://youtu.be/wsw0aWXufqM

[–] TheLeadenSea@sh.itjust.works 10 points 2 weeks ago

Boulevard of Broken Dreams by Green Day

[–] Zathras@lemmy.zip 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] RizzRustbolt@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago

Thats cheating.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 6 points 2 weeks ago

Round Here by Counting Crows

[–] spittingimage@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago

Mad World - specifically the Gary Jules version. Even Tears For Fears like what he did with it.

[–] osanna@thebrainbin.org 5 points 2 weeks ago

I have a few.

Sonny by New Found Glory

My December by Linkin Park

Adam's Song by Blink 182

[–] muxika@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago
[–] zwerg@feddit.org 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Depends on why I'm listening to sad music. But I'm an unrepentent goth, so Ive got a LOT if sad music. These are a few of my favourites:

  • Joy Division - Love will tear us apart, New dawn fades
  • Sisters of Mercy - Some kind of stranger
  • Dawn Penn - You don't love me (not the Rhianna version!)
  • VNV Nation - Legion. Or maybe Forsaken. Maybe all of PTF and Empires
  • Ultravox - Lament
  • Stanford - Songs of farewell
  • Faure - Requiem
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[–] Wolf314159@startrek.website 4 points 2 weeks ago

Jolene as covered by Jack White. Dolly Parton singing it is also great, but to me it comes off as just another country song about infidelity. When Jack White covers it, it seems to take on a whole other perspective, but I guess that also depends on the listener too and what they project onto it.

[–] Aurenkin@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 weeks ago

Had a pretty rough year last year. Dear Agony - Breaking Benjamin was my sad song of choice.

[–] emb@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Sad to me a lot of times means stuff about time passing and getting older or things changing, so most of these are along that line. Some of the ones I think of first:

Time, Fat Old Sun, and High Hopes by Pink Floyd

In My Life by The Beatles (also Ozzy)

Hurt by Johnny Cash (orginally NiN)

Preaching the End of the World by Chris Cornell

There Was a Light Here by Demon Hunter

[–] Hossenfeffer@feddit.uk 2 points 2 weeks ago

“Hanging on in quiet desperation is the English way…”

[–] lennybird@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago

The night we met - Lord Huron

Arms of an Angel, Sarah McLaughlan

Youth of the Nation - POD (kind of like Adam's Song).

World at Large - Modest Mouse

In the Aeroplane Over the Sea - Neutral Milk Hotel (based on Anne Franke).

To Build a Home - Cinematic Orchestra

There were some others already mentioned. Very powerful.

[–] anomnom@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
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[–] lonefighter@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 weeks ago

Lost Shadow by Gunship

[–] FreshParsnip@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 weeks ago

How To Save A Life by The Fray

[–] 0ops@piefed.zip 3 points 2 weeks ago

Ok, so this song is arguably more of a depression song than a sad song, but it's a great song. Pinch Me - Barenaked Ladies

[–] blackbrook@mander.xyz 3 points 2 weeks ago
[–] vittoria666@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago

"Somewhere Out There " from American Tail

[–] SuperEars@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago

Amanda Palmer's The Bed Song (YT link)

Lately I get got by Rise Against's People Live Here (YT link)

[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 2 points 2 weeks ago

The Magnetic Fields — "100,000 Fireflies"

[–] NihilsineNefas@slrpnk.net 2 points 2 weeks ago

Steve / King Park / No one was driving the car all by La Dispute

Honourable mentions for "In this shirt" by The Irrepressibles and "Ordinary Loss" by HEALTH

[–] iamthetot@piefed.ca 2 points 2 weeks ago

All My Love by London Grammar. Retrograde by James Blake.

[–] Pronell@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago
[–] SwingingTheLamp@piefed.zip 2 points 2 weeks ago

Favorite is relative, usually the one I'm listening to at the moment. But I keep coming back to the Okkervil River album, The Stand-Ins. It's a companion album to The Stage Names, about the losers and also-rans, so it's full of sad songs.

My favorites, though, are the last two:

Calling and Not Calling My Ex, about a man who stagnated after breaking up with his girlfriend while she pursued her career. (Rumored to be inspired by Will Sheff's relationship with Scarlett Johansen.)

Bruce Wayne Campbell Interviewed on the Roof of the Chelsea Hotel, 1979. Campbell was the first openly-gay rock star under the name Jobriath, and now mostly forgotten. He was manipulated and exploited by his manager/agent, and retired from music in 1975 to an apartment on the roof of the Chelsea Hotel. He died there of AIDS in 1983.

[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Glay - Kanojo

I have no idea where I first got that song, but I've had it as an mp3 for at least 20 years at this point.

[–] __Lost__@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 weeks ago

Chemo limo by Regina Spektor is mine.

Beautiful song, but it can be too sad for me sometimes if I'm in a more empathetic mind frame

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

There's the absolute classic: Halpelujah by Leonard Cohen which is just a beautiful song about the end of love

But my personal favorite is: I Will Follow You Into the Dark by Death Cab for Cutie, really the whole Plans album is amazing and wrecks me still.

[–] RizzRustbolt@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

Roads by Portishead.

[–] Saltarello@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

Oldie but Goldie & the saddest song I've ever heard: Gilbert O'Sullivan - Alone Again (Naturally)

[–] gopher@programming.dev 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

The National - About Today

Radiohead - Pyramid Song

Sufjan Stevens - Carrie & Lowell (album)

[–] jerkface@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)
[–] chronicledmonocle@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

Deference for Darkness - Halo 3 ODST Soundtrack

[–] Menschlicher_Fehler@feddit.org 2 points 2 weeks ago
[–] jordanlund@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

Promise of Sleep by the Jody Grind:

https://youtu.be/nmyRm21WRPc

[–] Junkers_Klunker@feddit.dk 1 points 2 weeks ago

Waylon Jennings - Drinking and dreaming

[–] konim@sopuli.xyz 1 points 2 weeks ago

Amen by Amber Run. To me its someone in alcoholics anonymous after their partner has died.

[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 1 points 2 weeks ago

This was a favorite for a long time, by the high water marks: https://thehighwatermarks.bandcamp.com/track/suicide

It feels like suicide or something worse

I've got this curse on me

It seems I only dream about the things

that shouldn't come to be

always I try to find a way it feels

it seems to real to me

I just can't let it go

I'll let you know

Just what it means to me

As days go past and it all moves too fast

And I won't think about it

And when I do it all comes back to you

And I don't want to change that

Markdown fornatting is really tedious to do on the phone so I'm not going to fix that more.

But the song sounds upbeat, but it's lyrics are a sad loop they want to break and also don't want to.

[–] TheCelticPirate@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago
[–] devolution@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

We Dont talk anymore - Charlie Puth

[–] Rhaedas@fedia.io 1 points 2 weeks ago

I don't like "favorite" or even top ten, as there are so many things out there that classify as good in a category. But two recent ones I reheard that came to mind were "Empty Garden" by Elton John and "It Must Have Been Love" by Roxette

[–] AlexLost@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Needle in the hay - Eliott Smith Burritos - Sublime

[–] boaratio@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

Freaking amazing song.

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