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Haha this immediately reminded me of this scene from White Lotus Season 3
Having to maintain a population is a kinda bizarr (hopefully not racist) concept. Humanities problem is not that we're dying out because there aren't enough humans ...
Sometimes I think parents forget that they CHOSE to have kids. There's always a choice. Even having sex with protection has a risk that people assume.
You ever see the futurama episode what that slug was forced to party all the time.
It’s like that
It's always a bit surreal to see people insist "As a childless adult, I get to have hobbies while you don't" when - as a childed adult - I find myself picking up hobbies I'd never even considered before kids.
My little guy stumbles on things and gets into them, needs some help, and suddenly we're both neck-deep in a jigsaw puzzle or a TV series or a train kit or a pile of half-painted miniatures.
A lot of people don't understand what it takes to raise children, completely overlooking what you just listed. You seem to be a good parent, which is rare.
No, we do. It's why we opted not to have any. We want to do what we want to do. Not whatever our children are into.
Same. This week I rode the new tramway network blind in a coastal city to have adventures with Kid. We bought copper wire and made jewellry with pretty pebbles (harder than I thought.) We played Split Fiction (and like It Takes Two better.) We showed her The Good Place (she loves it, because duh.)
Whe have fun.
Same.
Also I get to share my hobbies with them. We got a d&d group, we paint minis and play video games together. Which is stuff I'd do anyways.
I also picked up inline skating as my kids do that all the time and just standing there while they skate was boring.
Plus I still got hobbies as does my wife. Yes there is less time but we have each other's backs so everyone can have some time for their own interests like once or twice a week.
Warhammer moment:
WHAT IS OUR DUTY?!
I had children young and watched my peers have social lives, etc. But now, on this side of things, they're just getting started with little ones and my kids are driving. It's coming. MUHAHAHA
And may I add, you probably had more patience and more energy having had kids young.
As a man with 2 young kids, yes. Yes you do. It's an obligation for you to enjoy the free time as much as you can. I rely on my childless friends to fill me in on what's happening in the cultured world, because for me my life is nothing but Bluey, Paw Patrol, and Cocomelon.
That only lasts so long. My kids do their own thing, I do my own thing, and we do things together. I love hanging out with them and enjoying our shared interests. I know someday they won't want to/be able to spend that time together, so I take advantage while I can.
I second that. The time when their interests bore you to death is so damn small. The time they need a diaper or breastfeed is so damn small. It is intense and hard, but then, just some steps down the road, you just sit there rewatching Sailor Moon instead of Peppa Pig and spending time together becomes actually cool and interesting and it feels like you have a great person around. You read great books together instead of looking at books that go like "this is a caterpillar. It likes apples. The caterpillar bites into an apple." You make up stories. You draw together. You roughhouse. You just... hang out.
Yesterday I saw a man with his 5-year-old son out for a bike ride on the beach boardwalk. That little tiny boy was confidently adeptly riding his little bike balancing on two wheels like a full-on pro. I hope your kids get enough time away from the screen to enjoy life with skills like that too.
Who would downvote this lol? No kids, but also fully am tired of the us vs them mentality with cf versus childed. In today's world there is usually a much greater sacrifice to have kids and to be able to afford or have a community to have date nights and such, but having children is still an adventure that many parents enjoy. You probably hear a lot from the complainers, though. Similar to married guys who sigh and call their wives the old woman... the happily married are silent af usually.
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As a childless adult, it's my duty to be part of other people's lives and support families by being a trusted adult (trusted by parents and kids) and be a good role model for others' kids.
Why? Because we live in a society. Today's kids are tomorrow's adults. There are, unfortunately, a lot of terrible social influences out there, and parents can't battle society alone. Young boys and girls need to learn and develop healthy relationships with men and women alike, beyond just their parents, in order to have something to model themselves after and to learn how to treat others with love and respect.
And this is especially so for singletons. A lot of the bad and warped ideas about "relationships" and even self-esteem comes from unhealthy views of romantic relationships. Ideas like if you're not good enough if you don't have a boyfriend/girlfriend. Or ideas that men and women cannot "only" be friends (objectification of other sex). Ideas that men are owed relationships and sex by women (incels). Ideas that it's better to be with a bad partner than to be single (abuse).
Parents can't fight all of that on their own.
Well said.
Thank you so much for saying this. It's refreshing to hear this coming from someone else. We are divided in so many ways and need to bring the spirit of community back - the things you mention are critical steps in that direction.
I absolutely envy every family that has you in their lives. Please never stop thinking that way because we desperately need people like you. Not as a free baby sitter or lunch provider, but as a role model and influence. We really cannot do it all by ourselves.
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