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Couple examples from personal experience:

Spicy Food

I didn't like spicy food for a (relatively) long time until I was 25.

2/4 of my roommates did. We'd order two pizzas, one spicy and one not. But the asshats who liked spicy would eat half the non-spicy pizza first knowing the other one was safe from us.

Well... we'd see about that!

I bought a jar of pickled little yellow banana peppers. At first all I could manage was a tiny little bit of one. But I had that tiny little bite every evening, every day. Eventually my tolerance grew until I was eating a whole one, then multiples. In a few weeks I realized I was crunching through them and loving it. (Didn't love the first time I overindulged and found out what goes in can still burn going out, oof, lol.)


Beer

First time I had beer I did the movie-style stereotypical spit-take. Tasted like something I'd never want again. I drank when I was 18-19yrs old but it was usually Smirnoff Ice or some other "bitch-pop" as was said at the time by those around me.

When I was in my early 20s I supervised for a company that had us do a lot of traveling. Particularly three months of the year I was in a hotel more than at home.

There was a consistent crew of people who lived in a town nearby that I saw fairly frequently for those three months but not too often elsewise. As I said I was in my early 20s, 21-23ish. And they were in their late 20s to mid thirties.

They were inveterate drinkers, and they loved beer. And they undertook a self-imposed mission to teach me to love beer too. Them being older and me being impressionable, I went with it.

Every evening after work we'd hit up the local pub and I'd order three beers, based off their recommendations. One was an inveterate drinker as mentioned, the other a mid-thirties redheaded British woman I grew rather fond of and who was rather fond of me, along with some other crew. Basically, people who knew beer and in the case of the brit, someone who I would've listened to for a few reasons.

Didn't take too long but I certainly "acquired" a taste for it. Eventually acquiring my own preferences to the point I was recommending them ideas.

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[–] Alcyonaria@piefed.world 3 points 16 hours ago

Bourbon/scotch, but a bigger problem is that most is made poorly

Coconut water. I didn’t care for the taste but liked its ability to hydrate. Just kept drinking until now I sorta enjoy the taste. Has to be chilled though. Warm coconut water is nope. 

[–] frog_brawler@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago

I’ve never been a fan of mushrooms. I did attempt to tolerate them though.

Turns out, canned mushrooms are the problem. Those are basically large boogers and not fit for human consumption. Fresh mushrooms don’t have much flavor and I’m relatively indifferent to those. They are now just something I chop up with onion and garlic sometimes now.

[–] 200ok@lemmy.world 44 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I found out that a lot of stuff I thought I didn't like was because it wasn't made very well

[–] snooggums@piefed.world 27 points 2 days ago (2 children)

So many people hate vegetables because they were raised on bland and over cooked soggy plant matter.

Roasted veggies are so fucking good.

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[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 day ago

Wine. I've never been much of a wine person, and I prefer beer with my food, but at some restaurants and events, the food is usually paired well with a wine. Because of this I tried to actually like it, and I am now at the point where I can enjoy white wine that isn't too sweet.

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

Yes. I tried mangoes every year untill I liked them, avocado too. Raw tomatoes I keep trying, can tolerate, can't like.

Last year I made a deal with my coworker, who is a wine person but such a picky eater he went to Japan and just ate chicken tenders, same in the middle east. I told him if he honestly tried eating new foods I would try wines. He found some foods he likes, and I found I like dry elegant white wines (nothing sweet) and most wines made of Nebbiolo grapes, like instead of just sort of holding my nose and tolerating them, I can affirmatively like them .

I truly believe a wide palate is a positive quality, I gave my kids lots of different tasting foods when they were little and that helped them to enjoy more flavors. I think technically I'm picky (have strong likes and dislikes) but like so, so many foods it's not limiting. And yes, I do try to like some of the foods I don't.

[–] heyWhatsay@slrpnk.net 13 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Kombucha, the first couple bottles taste like fizzy vinegar, but then I got hooked on it. I was trying to get my gut microbes in a healthier zone.

[–] Raiderkev@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I worked at a health food store in college. I thought the people who drank that stuff were nuts til enough vendors came by with free samples. Free shit to a college kid is irresistible. By the time I quit that job I was drinking 1 a day, sometimes more. Additionally, I preferred the weird multi green one to the fruity ones (those were for noobs obviously). I still grab one from time to time, but them not being 5 feet away from me 40 hours a week put a real damper on my consumption of them.

[–] tigeruppercut@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Ridiculously easy and cheap to make your own booch I'd you get the craving

[–] Raiderkev@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I feel like it'd make my house smell awful tho

[–] tigeruppercut@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 day ago

Pretty much just smells like vinegar

[–] Vupware@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It is demanding in the long-term, in that a starter will live perpetually and as such you must produce the booch perpetually.

[–] moonshadow@slrpnk.net 3 points 1 day ago

Like $1/10 minutes of input a month for infinite booch is a pretty sweet deal

[–] Sterile_Technique@lemmy.world 16 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (8 children)

Coffee. I really wanted to be able to enjoy black coffee, cuz it smells so deceptively good, is cheap as fuck, and basically zero calorie. Except it tastes like concentrated dirt. Bitter. Acrid. None of the appeal promised by the smell makes its way to the taste.

Unless I acquire the taste!

Typically my coffee has a similar cream and sugar content to a milkshake, so I actually measured it out to get a baseline, then over the course of about two months phased down to just black coffee. ...and over the course of two months, my coffee phased more and more into tasting like shit. But I tolerated it - eyes on the prize. After that, I spent another month drinking it black. At the end of that month, I finally accepted that black coffee tasted just as much like shit as it did on day one.

My coffee is back to resembling a milkshake... fuck.

I tried.

New hypothesis: there's some kind of generic factor at play like there is with cilantro. That shit is delicious to some and absolutely vile to others, and no amount of trying to acquire it will flip that switch. I drew the short straw on that horrid plant, too.

[–] KuroiKaze@lemmy.world 1 points 16 hours ago

What you're looking for is the super taster gene, read up on the Wikipedia article. I have it and agree coffee tastes like shit.

[–] Butterpaderp@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

What kind of coffee are you drinking? See if there's a local brand or cafe to try. Some coffee brands are usually much worse when they don't have additives to hide the flavor (ex, Starbucks)

Starbucks is among the worst. I tried grounds from a good variety of brands, all prepared with a normal coffee maker which another poster suggested is not actually a good way to brew coffee. They all fell somewhere on a spectrum between bad and REALLY bad. Didn't go for the crazy fancy stuff - my favorite ended up being a hazelnut flavored whole bean from the bulk section of WinCo. Which is still my favorite, I just milkshake-ify now.

[–] AstaKask@lemmy.cafe 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Fresh ground beans, ~93°C water, pour-over or immersion brewed. If the coffee tastes dirty, acrid and bitter, it's because it was poorly made or it had gone bad. It should be sweat and caramelly or chocolatey.

A lot like how rancid meat is often hidden by added spicy flavourings, bad coffee is hidden by added sweat flavourings.

[–] FrederikNJS@sopuli.xyz 5 points 1 day ago

Bitterness in coffee comes from overextraction, acidity in coffee often comes from underextraction.

On top of that darker roasts tend to be more bitter, and lighter roasts tend to be more acidic.

The main problem is usually the wrong grind size and brew method.

Grinding the coffee too coarsely makes it hard to extract flavours, leading to underextraction (sourness). Grinding too finely makes it easier to extract flavours (both desirable and undesirable) leading to overextraction (bitterness)

Regular coffee makers, pour over, and espresso are all percolation brews. That means that the water flows through the coffee and extracts flavours while it does these kinds of brews can develop channels while the water flows through, which causes the water to overextract the coffee where the channel is, but underextract the rest of the coffee, which can lead to a brew that is at the same time sour (underextracted) and bitter (overextracted)

The other general method of brewing is immersion brewing. This is where the coffee and the water hangs around for a while during the brew, and is then strained away from each other. Good examples are French press, aeropress, siphon, and cold brew. Since these methods can't really develop channels, you don't have the same problem with over and underextraction, and therefore these methods are also much easier to "get right".

So if you want an easy method too get better tasting coffee, try a French press, and be careful grinding too finely. If there's a layer of silt at the bottom of your cup you are grinding too finely. Pregroud coffee is usually too fine for French press.

[–] 200ok@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

I had a similar journey.. adding a splash of coffee to my cream and sugar slurry 😂

What did it for me was experimenting with different beans, brewing methods, and grinding fineness/coarseness before finding a combo that tasted rather sweet on its own.

My new problem is that I don't enjoy coffee made elsewhere clownface.jpg

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[–] Beebabe@lemmy.world 23 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Yes for black coffee and tapioca pearls, as well as hot food because good lord the dopamine is so nice.

And in reverse I’ve conditioned myself to be disgusted by alcohol.

[–] tigeruppercut@lemmy.zip 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] Beebabe@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Sorry, I mean like adding a ton of spices. Make my mouth fight for its life a bit before a ton of flavor. So good.

[–] tigeruppercut@lemmy.zip 2 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Oh yeah, probably should've been able to figure that one out on my own (although I've heard the opposite, where people don't like food that's supposed to be served hot once it's cooled off)

[–] Beebabe@lemmy.world 2 points 17 hours ago

It’s perfectly valid to get confused there. Temperature does change how palatable some food is as well. Cold soup isn’t that awesome.

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[–] Grimm665@lemmy.dbzer0.com 18 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I had almost the reverse with coffee. I always liked the smell of coffee but not really the taste. Then my family bought a Nespresso machine when i was in high school, and i started adding espresso shots to hot chocolate. Then i started occasionally making espresso shots and drinking them straight. Then several years later i found myself in a hotel for work, at 6am before a shift, and they automatically brought me black coffee. I took one sip and was like "oh i guess i like coffee now" and never looked back. Yep, regular old hotel breakfast coffee got me hooked.

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[–] railway692@piefed.zip 11 points 2 days ago (6 children)

I tried and failed with blue cheese.

Every year, I try again and fail a different way.

[–] sik0fewl@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 day ago

Same here. I'm not a very picky eater at all, but I can't seem to eat blue cheese and it's not for lack of trying.

[–] snooggums@piefed.world 11 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Blue cheese is best as an addition to something else, like on a burger or salad. By itself or on a cracker it can be very overwhelming because of the strong flavor.

If you tried it those kinds of ways then it might not be your thing.

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[–] HurricaneLiz@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago (4 children)

I've tried so hard with celery and onions. Turns out I like the flavors just fine, it's the textures I can't handle. So I just have to chop them up into the tiniest pieces so they don't squeak when I bite down. Food shouldn't squeak when I bite down.

[–] Thedogdrinkscoffee@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

The cheese curds in poutine must squeek when you bite down.

[–] HurricaneLiz@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

Haahaha, ew, no! J/k, thanks for letting me know something I should never try 😂💜

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[–] Hoimo@ani.social 5 points 1 day ago (2 children)

A squeaky onion is an undercooked onion imo, same for celery and carrots. I give those vegetables a big headstart on everything else. They're basically impossible to overcook and their best flavors come out when they're soft through and through.

[–] HurricaneLiz@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

For sure! I can handle them cut up small and cooked forever, but it took a lot of willpower on my part to get to that point 😂

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[–] Raiderkev@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I still barely fuck with raw onions, but grilled onions are great, and were the gateway drug to my appreciation for Onions in general. When I was a kid, I'd pick them out of everything. Had a burger unknowingly with grilled onions. Shit changed my life. Started to appreciate the flavor and even incorporate it into my cooking. Now, most things I cook have onions in them in some way, shape or form.

[–] HurricaneLiz@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

Hmmm. Do they still squeak like a mouse tho? 😂

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[–] bitchkat@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

I worked very hard to like beer when I was in high school. It didn't help that I was "borrowing" warm Old Milwaukee from my dad's case in the basement.

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