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Hello, Im kind of new here and trying to get used to Lemmy and I was wondering about if this is true since I am considering donating on this site to support alternative projects but wanted to hear other users before doing so. That being said, what have been your experiences?

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[–] BennyTheExplorer@lemmy.world 15 points 2 days ago

I would say, Lemmy (or the Fediverse in general is just like real life. You can say anything you want, but don't expect anyone to invite you to their party or talk to you, if you are being an jerk.

Meaning, that noone can ban you from Lemmy for anything you say. But they certainly can ban you from their own instance and / or not federate with an instance, you are on if they don't like what you say.

Also, as a general word of advice, just be a decent, nice person and you'll probably be fine. Online or offline. A major idea of the fediverse is to imagine and be part of a better world and if we engage with each other respectfully, everyone is better off.

[–] sturmblast@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago

I'd say yes, reddit is overmoderated

[–] Az_1@piefed.social 4 points 2 days ago

I was using Lemmy And am now on piefed and I can say that Lemmy feels more free from reddit. I find my stuff getting removed less and if it did, the mods would have actual reasons for it rather than reddit mods which removed stuff because they felt like it. There's still the mob mentality with down votes and people still mass down vote things they don't like though

[–] DarkFuture@lemmy.world 23 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (29 children)

Absolutely.

It's not even a debate.

My 13 year old Reddit account was perma-banned without warning for saying "PUNCH A NAZI". Let's test that out here.

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And that was just my first of probably 30-40 Reddit accounts before I finally said fuck it and came here. I'm not some asshole purposefully posting asshole shit I know I'm going to get banned for. Reddit is just that pathetic.

It's just that I have zero patience for dipshits posting misinformation (as should we all) and I'm not afraid to let them know it. Lemmy gives me that liberty. Thanks Lemmy!!!

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[–] vrighter@discuss.tchncs.de 11 points 3 days ago (2 children)

freedom of speech means the government can't arrest you for speaking up. Neither lemmy nor reddit are the government, so freedom of speech does not apply.

[–] pmk@piefed.ca 5 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Which word or phrase do you suggest we should use instead for the idea of freedom of speech applied on a private level? Where in this case the instance admin takes on the role of regulating what can or can't be communicated on their instance.

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[–] ninexe@sh.itjust.works -1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Yeah, you're right (and smart.)

There is no concept of freedom of speech if not formalized from a state.

[–] vrighter@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 1 day ago

just as I'm free to kick anyone out of my house if they start spewing bullshit, so is anyone else. Being kicked out of someone else's property because they don't like you has nothing to do with freedom of speech.

“Freedom of speech” is such a fraught concept. Define your terms.

This place has moderation…but it’s not the same as Reddit with their broad autoban system that the sub moderators tend to exploit. It depends on what you say.

I’m pretty new…but it’s apples and oranges. You’re a lot less likely to be baited into disingenuous arguments designed to make you angry to maximize engagement, here. People tend to post and comment in earnest.

[–] TORFdot0@lemmy.world 7 points 3 days ago

I’d actually consider Lemmy’s freedom of speech to be very similar to the US. Nobody on the network can limit your speech in your own instance but nobody has to platform your terrible speech and everyone is free to ignore your speech and exclude you to just participating on your own instance.

[–] pmk@piefed.ca 44 points 4 days ago (8 children)

What makes Lemmy different from Reddit is that if some moderator or admin is limiting your freedom of speech, you can run your own instance with your own rules and communities and still be on Lemmy. Reddit can ban you from Reddit, but Lemmy is like a collection of "reddits" that integrate and there is no central authority. To answer your question, as a user you have more freedom to find an instance with rules that align with your values and wishes, and you always have the option to create your own instance, and no one can stop you. If you say things that other people don't want to hear, they might block you, but that doesn't limit your freedom of speech.

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[–] FaceDeer@fedia.io 35 points 4 days ago (10 children)

Technically, yeah. Some instances are run by tin-pot dictators with delusions of godhood, but if you get banned from one of those just switch to another one.

The communities tend to be bubblier, though, since they're small. So if your opinions don't match you'll get shouted down harder.

[–] Rhoeri@lemmy.world 12 points 4 days ago (8 children)

The hive is a lot more arrogant here.

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[–] VlerrieBR@lemmy.world 10 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Ive made many comments that go against the general view of the user base. It gets downvoted but never deleted or banned. So I would say its pro free speech.

[–] Lemminary@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Not in my experience. I've gotten into an argument while specifically pleading against sharing screen-wide, zoomed-in images of common phobias like spiders without a spoiler/NSFW out of basic consideration.

Not only did people go out of their way to misunderstand what I was saying, but I got too many wholly nasty replies, and then got banned for reporting someone else for actually breaking the sub and site-wide rules, and was accused of being a "well-known troll" in the modlog. The fuck?

Needless to say, I got the mod to unban me when I called them out in another thread, and they eventually apologized.

But the knee-jerk reaction, close-mindedness, and immediate hate that I got felt a lot like the prejudice I've seen with homophobia. It's so exhausting to see these prejudices and attitudes so readily prop up in unexpected places, especially in a forum where you'd think people know better.

[–] YeahIgotskills2@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago

Certainly less aggressive admins and auto mods.

[–] ninexe@sh.itjust.works 0 points 1 day ago (1 children)

In some cases yes, in others, no. It really depends on the community and instance.

Lemmy has the potential to facilitate free speech discussions, but unfortunately a lot of its users actively suppress the idea because they like censoring their opposition.

[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 day ago

Says the two day old account...

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 16 points 3 days ago (1 children)

It has just as much freedom as any other platform. It all depends on who the admins and moderators are. We do have better tools of keeping those in check, with the modlog being publicly available tho.

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[–] SirEDCaLot@lemmy.today 8 points 3 days ago (5 children)

There is three questions to consider.

One is the site itself. Reddit inc has their own policies that apply site-wide no matter what. Lemmy has no central organization like that, although each individual server operator has their own acceptable use policy for what they allow on their server. This means it is both more free and more confusing- if you want to post potentially objectionable content like porn, there are plenty of servers that allow it or you can always run your own, but you have to make sure you are on one.

Next is individual group moderation. Both Reddit and Lemmy have this, community level moderators that apply whatever standards particular community requires. There is much less of the 'power mod on a power trip' situation than on Reddit currently, at least in my experience. I think some of that is because the overall traffic level is less, so it will be interesting to see what happens as Lemmy grows.

Finally there is culture and self-moderation. You see this on mass market platforms like Instagram and TikTok, where someone will say like they were roped at a party and want to buy a pewpew to unalive themself or some other such bullshit. Unfortunately that brain rot is spreading into Reddit, even though it is not at all required. Fortunately Lemmy seems pretty free of that so far.

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[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 21 points 4 days ago (7 children)

It depends what you mean. Individual instances have their own approach to moderation, which influences what you will see and have access to. Some are more hands off than others. But if your "free speech" is really just looking for a free pass to hate on folk, then you won't have much luck with lemmy. There are instances that allow that, but most other instances block them.

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[–] SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago

Best to donate to another project besides lemmy.

The main dev for lemmy is kind of a shitty person who is not shy about their shitty beleifs.

He supports authoritarians and dictatorships and bans anyone who doesn't excuses the human rights abuses of dictatorships.

[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 16 points 4 days ago

short answer: yes

medium answer: depends on what instance you're on

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