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I have a few daughters looking for science and engineering programs in the next few years. They're all scared to attend schools in states hostile towards women. I get that. I'm looking for recommendations for schools in states positive towards women that have good STEM programs.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

New Jersey has Rutgers, NJIT, and Stevens Institute of Technology. New Jersey in general is positive to women and all schools have programs in place to be inclusive to women in engineering.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

What makes a good STEM program is usually dependent on both the student and the exact discipline they want. My university had a great engineering department and great wildlife management program, but good luck to you if you want biochemistry.

Other than that? Just avoid the Neoconfederacy. They've even done us all the favor of trying to outlaw abortion, and there are plenty of infographics that can show you the no-go states.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I assume you are refering to the US without explicite writing it. But most European countries should be fine - especially Nordic countries.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

How about Finland?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

Universities with higher female student ratio are probably a safe bet, although fair warning your daughters will statistically have worse matches for a partner.

Source; went to a school of higher women pop, scored a gem.

Jokes aside though, simply aiming for the best school is a safe bet too.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

Check out Melbourne University if you live in Victoria.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

Is this American ? You don't say where. I'm not aware of any difference in the states here in Australia. But if so, maybe RMIT?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

73% upvotes.

The downvotes that are part of the 27%, what's your problem?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Downvoted it because OP didn't specify where in the world they were, therefore nobody can properly give a good answer. Recommending an overseas university is very different to recommending one from their country.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

Fair, but they wrote "states" which immediately maked me think it's the US.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

If their STEM inrerest is computer science, I have a rare and excellent recommendation of Champlain College.

Pros: In Vermont, very liberal, frats are frowned upon (only exist at UVM), Small city not very dangerous. Kids tend to smoke more weed than they do drink or experiment with drugs. The drug experimentation of choice tends to be psychedelics. Excellent CS program with a truly excellent track record for students working in their field straight from graduation. Excellent food, beautiful state.

Cons: Vermont is seductive. Hard to leave; no good jobs. Also, expensive. Way more than you'd expect for being in the mountains.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

My daughter went to RIT and got a great education with zero harassment issues.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

University of Michigan. Ann Arbor is a hardcore dem city and in a state with abortion rights protected af

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

I second Michigan! I live here, and the middle-state cities here are typically full of left-leaning young folks.

The farther north you go, though, the political leanings get worse. Definitely recommend mid & lower Michigan, though.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Women go to the same universities as men.

This isn't like shampoo, where the women's version is a seperate product.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Take a little time to read the whole question. They're asking about cities/states where their daughters can feel safe & empowered, as well as the fact that there is a good university, that likely shouldn't have a "frat bro" culture.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Aren’t women safe in all states?
It’s a bit hard to fathom as a European, so I’d love some knowledge if you’d share

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Some states have pretty strict laws regarding abortions.

I assume that this is what the person is referring to.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 9 months ago (2 children)

He only wants to send his daughters to places where they can get abortions? Seems a weird way of picking a college.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

He wants to send his daughters to school in a place where they're not only being valued for their wombs. Where they're looked at as being equal contributors to their field of study. Where they're provided opportunities the same as every other scholar there, and not assumed to be in college to find a husband.

And, yes, there is a bit of "if they get into trouble will they have options?" At play I'm sure as well.

Quit being obtuse.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

Sorry, I should have elaborated.

The laws are strict and would hold doctors liable in some places. There was an instance where a woman needed some pain killer but the doctor wouldn’t prescribe it because it could cause the termination of a fetus.

When the lady told the doctor she wasn’t pregnant, he told her that she could become pregnant.

I know that’s an extreme example, but it is an example.

Another is that abortions in the case of rape might be illegal in some places and traveling out of state to a place where about is legal is also illegal.

It’s also illegal in some places to knowing help a person get to a place where it’s legal to get an abortion.

I’m not in expert in the subject, and the law varies by state so it gets confusing.

My wife and I do not live in the US and don’t plan to return, so we have not followed it closely.

Oh, I think there was also an issue of cops or the government possibly buying the data from period tracking apps, but I’m not sure about that.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 9 months ago

OP never mentioned men. Bit of a slip on your part.