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Can I be a lesbian? (lemmings.world)

submitted 1 day ago by anthony@lemmings.world to c/lesbians@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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OSDD system here, maybe it’s because we have another lesbian alter fronting right now, but I sort of feel connected to lesbians. I have this very slight thing telling me I’m probably into girls, and I’m also mostly agender, so I’m not exactly a man. Can I call myself a lesbian? This may change as I start to front by myself and not with her, though

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[–] belated_frog_pants@beehaw.org 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

My friends that are fluid and/or plural will often have sexualities per person in the system, and identify differently depending on who fronts.

All of 3 my selves have slightly different tastes.

I think being communicative about yourself and how you feel will be most important and more trans/gnc friendly places should be fine with it.

[–] anthony@lemmings.world 3 points 1 day ago

Thanks so much!! I think right now, the alter is a lesbian woman but I'm asexual cupioromantic