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[–] andros_rex@lemmy.world 124 points 2 years ago (3 children)

“You know, he drives to work in his bicycle with his, with his, in all fairness, with his husband on the back, which is a nice loving relationship,” Trump said sarcastically. “But he didn’t have a clue. This guy… didn’t have a clue.”

Yeah, everyone knows that only homos love their partners. Real men like Trump view their partners as trophies and fleshlights.

[–] foggy@lemmy.world 42 points 2 years ago (6 children)

Lol you think Melania let's trump have sex with her?

I'd put money on that not having happened in years.

[–] Numenor@lemmy.world 19 points 2 years ago (5 children)

The phrase ‘women let men have sex with them’ bothers me. It frames sex as something women permit men to do, rather than a mutual choice both partners actively make.

In a relationship sex is (or should be) a mutual expression of attraction, love, desire, acceptance, understanding.

The idea that women “let” men have sex with them is problematic because it frames intimacy as something one person grants another, like a favour, rather than a shared experience. In healthy relationships, sex isn’t about permission or transactions—it’s about mutual desire and connection.

The word “let” also subtly reinforces old stereotypes, where men are seen as chasing sex and women as controlling access to it. Relationships work when both partners feel equally free to express what they want, say no without pressure, and see intimacy as something they create together. Consent is an ongoing dialogue where both people check in, respect boundaries, and prioritise each other’s comfort.

Ultimately, sex shouldn’t feel like a performance or a prize. It’s about vulnerability, trust, and collaboration. Good relationships thrive when both people feel heard, valued, and free to be themselves without rigid roles.

I'm of course not suggesting that there are any indications that Melania and Donald have anything approximating what could be called a good relationship.

[–] TheCriticalMember@aussie.zone 33 points 2 years ago

The small amount of comprehension you showed in the last paragraph made the entire soap box unnecessary. Context is important here. The entire point is that Melania has never wanted sex with trump, and has never enjoyed it, but just allows it to happen under certain circumstances. It's the entire theme of the mockery.

[–] idiomaddict@lemmy.world 15 points 2 years ago

I’m not the person you’re responding to, but tbh, though I wouldn’t ever describe my relationship in those terms, it seems like they might be true to their dynamic.

[–] wildncrazyguy138@fedia.io 7 points 2 years ago (3 children)

You know, I would love to agree with you, but that’s just not the case for many husbands in hetero relationships. I watched my wife’s libido fall through the floor after the birth of our child. After years of therapy and communication and commitment to the relationship, we got it back from once every two months to almost once every week, and that’s the max she said she’s willing to commit to at the moment. I’d be more content with 2-3 times that.

Some tropes exist because there’s a bit of them grounded in reality.

[–] CoolThingAboutMe@aussie.zone 10 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I think you're not comprehending the commenters point.

It's not saying that men and women have exactly the same desires and necessities. It's saying that framing sex as something that men do to women is problematic.

[–] wildncrazyguy138@fedia.io 4 points 2 years ago

Fair enough, I support that sentiment.

[–] andros_rex@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

I watched my wife’s libido fall through the floor after the birth of our child.

Some things I’ve heard along these lines can be exhaustion from the responsibility of caring for a child. I’m not accusing you of anything, but you might meditate for a minute on what household and childcare tasks you do versus her, and consider how that might have an impact.

[–] My_IFAKs___gone@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago

::slow clap:: ::tear::

Well said.

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[–] Ensign_Crab@lemmy.world 13 points 2 years ago

Lol you think Melania let’s trump have sex with her?

You think she has ever given that level of consent?

[–] andros_rex@lemmy.world 11 points 2 years ago

Trump historically is very well known for accepting a “no.”

Although maybe Melania has Putin on speeddial to leak the piss tapes if he crosses her.

[–] Ledericas@lemm.ee 11 points 2 years ago

not for FREE, its probably a clause in her prenups that she must recieve certain amount of money, and then to birth barron cost him extra,.

[–] Gsus4@mander.xyz 5 points 2 years ago (1 children)

She should take one for the team and let him die of a happy heart attack.

[–] III@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago

By "take one for the team" do you mean wear an Ivanka mask?

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[–] havocpants@lemm.ee 15 points 2 years ago (1 children)

“But he didn’t have a clue. This guy… didn’t have a clue.”

Seriously, Trump calls people "low IQ" and says they "don't have a clue" while being the absolute stupidest motherfucker who ever fucking lived, how is he not called out for this? Trump's reading comprehension and speech is at the level of a young child. I swear I don't understand how this absolutely stupid, vile excuse for a man can be president of the most powerful nation on earth.

[–] Lasherz12@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago

The realm in which he picks his fights is full of people who get off on being "above the fray." Every time he attacks someone who can defend themselves, he quietly stops in a hurry.

[–] joekar1990@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Scott Bessent also has a Husband so kinda curious how he would feel if trump ever rotated to him to throw him under the bus.

[–] Gregg@lemm.ee 9 points 2 years ago

We’ll see in a month when he’s thrown under the bus

[–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

And a former partner at Soros Fund Management.

That the antisemitic and homophobic bigot fanboys like Alex Jones aren't demonizing him as a "deep state globalist degenerate" or whatever and demanding that Trump fire him is a perfect example of how servile they are to their Mango Mussolini Messiah

[–] Gregg@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Alex Jones is just an Elon Musk cheerleader selling sea moss and ranting about the devil at this point. It’s incredible to see how contradicting his current support for this administration’s illegality is to his whole philosophy from when he started. He never cared about anything. It was always about chasing the grift. He rolled Bill Cooper into Rush Limbaugh to sell cheap supplements to rubes at a high markup.

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[–] Lushed_Lungfish@lemmy.ca 88 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Well Trump married an illegal immigrant so maybe ICE should sort that out.

[–] marv99@feddit.org 23 points 2 years ago

Interesting, did not even know that Trump and Musk are married.

[–] masterofn001@lemmy.ca 10 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] JasonDJ@lemmy.zip 7 points 2 years ago

So she immigrated legally, but essentially through a loophole. Why am I not surprised?

[–] TipRing@lemmy.world 76 points 2 years ago

Because all of Trump's relationships are transactional, he can't fathom a relationship between two people who actually love each other and work together as equal partners.

[–] TachyonTele@lemm.ee 50 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

Trumps just jealous Pete gets laid

[–] meeeeetch@lemmy.world 32 points 2 years ago (1 children)

And likes/is liked by his spouse.

[–] TachyonTele@lemm.ee 8 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Make no mistake. Melina is just as much of an asshole as Trump.

[–] baronvonj@lemmy.world 16 points 2 years ago

That doesn't contradict the implication that she doesn't like him.

[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 36 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children)

I'm sure than man is happier with his marriage than melania ever was.

[–] Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 15 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

At least he is married to a man. All Melania has is a geriatric toddler.

[–] Uranus_Hz@lemm.ee 7 points 2 years ago

Melania is perfectly happy with her marriage, when she doesn’t have to be anywhere near Donald.

[–] Ledericas@lemm.ee 32 points 2 years ago (1 children)

pete is also a veteran too.

[–] Cheems@lemmy.world 20 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

It's not like he hasn't mocked veterans before

[–] barneypiccolo@lemm.ee 19 points 2 years ago

He was probably trying to repeat a vicious joke that one of his henchmen told, and he botched it, because above all else, his primary characteristic is his virtuosic incompetence.

[–] FistingEnthusiast@lemmynsfw.com 18 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

He's a disgrace, but his fans will absolutely love it

[–] darkdemize@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I think you accidentally a word.

[–] FistingEnthusiast@lemmynsfw.com 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I did

I edited, and I tried to come up with a funny joke, but I failed

[–] wildncrazyguy138@fedia.io 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

It’s okay, you should concentrate on the matters at hand.

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[–] JeeBaiChow@lemmy.world 16 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Pete's partner loves him though. Melania's only been at the wh for 10 days iirc. What a loser.

*Melanie, per Trump.

[–] Freshparsnip@lemm.ee 14 points 2 years ago

He's just jealous he can't make a marriage work

[–] Wazowski@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago

One of these guys literally bought his spouse.

[–] Etterra@discuss.online 5 points 2 years ago

Cool story Orange Man.

[–] Maeve@kbin.earth 4 points 2 years ago
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