this post was submitted on 15 Apr 2025
967 points (99.5% liked)

196

3053 readers
2416 users here now

Community Rules

You must post before you leave

Be nice. Assume others have good intent (within reason).

Block or ignore posts, comments, and users that irritate you in some way rather than engaging. Report if they are actually breaking community rules.

Use content warnings and/or mark as NSFW when appropriate. Most posts with content warnings likely need to be marked NSFW.

Most 196 posts are memes, shitposts, cute images, or even just recent things that happened, etc. There is no real theme, but try to avoid posts that are very inflammatory, offensive, very low quality, or very "off topic".

Bigotry is not allowed, this includes (but is not limited to): Homophobia, Transphobia, Racism, Sexism, Abelism, Classism, or discrimination based on things like Ethnicity, Nationality, Language, or Religion.

Avoid shilling for corporations, posting advertisements, or promoting exploitation of workers.

Proselytization, support, or defense of authoritarianism is not welcome. This includes but is not limited to: imperialism, nationalism, genocide denial, ethnic or racial supremacy, fascism, Nazism, Marxism-Leninism, Maoism, etc.

Avoid AI generated content.

Avoid misinformation.

Avoid incomprehensible posts.

No threats or personal attacks.

No spam.

Moderator Guidelines

Moderator Guidelines

  • Don’t be mean to users. Be gentle or neutral.
  • Most moderator actions which have a modlog message should include your username.
  • When in doubt about whether or not a user is problematic, send them a DM.
  • Don’t waste time debating/arguing with problematic users.
  • Assume the best, but don’t tolerate sealioning/just asking questions/concern trolling.
  • Ask another mod to take over cases you struggle with, if you get tired, or when things get personal.
  • Ask the other mods for advice when things get complicated.
  • Share everything you do in the mod matrix, both so several mods aren't unknowingly handling the same issues, but also so you can receive feedback on what you intend to do.
  • Don't rush mod actions. If a case doesn't need to be handled right away, consider taking a short break before getting to it. This is to say, cool down and make room for feedback.
  • Don’t perform too much moderation in the comments, except if you want a verdict to be public or to ask people to dial a convo down/stop. Single comment warnings are okay.
  • Send users concise DMs about verdicts about them, such as bans etc, except in cases where it is clear we don’t want them at all, such as obvious transphobes. No need to notify someone they haven’t been banned of course.
  • Explain to a user why their behavior is problematic and how it is distressing others rather than engage with whatever they are saying. Ask them to avoid this in the future and send them packing if they do not comply.
  • First warn users, then temp ban them, then finally perma ban them when they break the rules or act inappropriately. Skip steps if necessary.
  • Use neutral statements like “this statement can be considered transphobic” rather than “you are being transphobic”.
  • No large decisions or actions without community input (polls or meta posts f.ex.).
  • Large internal decisions (such as ousting a mod) might require a vote, needing more than 50% of the votes to pass. Also consider asking the community for feedback.
  • Remember you are a voluntary moderator. You don’t get paid. Take a break when you need one. Perhaps ask another moderator to step in if necessary.

founded 3 months ago
MODERATORS
 
top 50 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[–] [email protected] 60 points 1 week ago (1 children)

One was a "civil rights activist" selling their name to Bezos too. So disappointing to hear.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Amanda Nguyen's story is so sad too. The way the Blue Origin PR piece tries to spin it just makes it worse, IMO.

She always wanted to be an astronaut. While she was at Harvard she interned at NASA. The way the Blue Origin PR movie tells her story, her dreams of being an astronaut were interrupted when she was raped at Harvard in 2013. She then spent time fighting for the rights of rape survivors and never became an astronaut. But, in the Blue Origin PR piece's version of events, that's all fine because now her dream of being an "astronaut" is finally coming true, because she was launched into the upper atmosphere in a penis rocket and spent a few minutes in space.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Well here I was thinking I was as sad as I was getting today

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

That's the thing about 2025, the sadness mines always go deeper.

[–] [email protected] 51 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Oh god, that's just, so incredibly gross. They put them in suits like they're Deanna Troi in the first few seasons of Star Trek: TNG, it's all just so tokenistic. https://www.theguardian.com/science/2025/apr/14/blue-origin-rocket-launch

[–] [email protected] 55 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Before liftoff, [Gayle] King – who co-hosts CBS Mornings – said she was approaching the rocket trip with trepidation. “I still get very uncomfortable when people say ‘astronaut’,” she said. “I in no means feel like an astronaut. They said: ‘But, Gayle, if you go to space, you’re an astronaut.”

Stepping on a boat doesn't make you a sailor.

This wasn't an "all-female mission", but the equivalent of the women-only carriage on a metro. Or more like a limo, actually, because you don't need a billionaire's personal invitation to ride the metro.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago

Yeah, I immediately yelled at my phone about that quote...

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago

Astronaut is a job, and it's one of the jobs that's the most difficult to do, and has the lowest acceptance rate in the world. People who are actual astronauts dedicate a career to it. The pay they receive is relatively low for their talent. And, they typically have to do a lot of PR events. It's a grind, but it's rewarding to have one of the most unique jobs in the world.

Putting on a bandage doesn't make you a doctor. Unclogging a toilet doesn't make you a plumber. And going into space, even into orbit, doesn't make you an astronaut. If you actually get to orbit, I'll give you "space tourist". But, if you're just barely getting above 100 km, you're a "high altitude tourist", nothing more.

And, as for "mission", a mission has a purpose, and just having fun for a few minutes while you're in the upper atmosphere isn't an actual mission.

[–] [email protected] 49 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

...made the trip to the Kármán line – the internationally recognized boundary of space – to float about, weightlessly, in the rocket’s capsule for three minutes

So they literally flew to the very edge of what's technically space, stayed there three minutes, then left. It's like a US citizen driving to the border with Canada, stepping over, waiting three minutes, and declaring yourself a worldly traveler. As performative as it gets.

[–] [email protected] 32 points 1 week ago

they didn’t even try space poutine :/

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

It's still technically very hard, very expensive, and a very cool experience for oneself. So yeah good for them, but I agree this won't get them any Nobel

[–] [email protected] 45 points 1 week ago

No better way to shit on women who spent their entire lives getting to space than by calling Katy perry and 'icon' for going on a glorified plane ride

[–] [email protected] 30 points 1 week ago

it's not a mission it's a tour ffs

[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 week ago (3 children)

judging women's rights by the best experience possible and not the average experience

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)

That's how men are measured, so equality I guess? Seriously though, note how much talk about men as a class is specifically about CEOs, Senators and the like who are far, far away from the average experience.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago (2 children)

this is exactly why people don't fucking get why we need men's day. It's november 19th, no one fucking remembers or gives a shit.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

It’s november 19th

...which is also World Toilet Day, which typically gets more attention. Note that it was International Men's Day first, so someone decided they needed a Toilet Day and decided it should be on the same day.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

both men and toilets seem to fulfil similar roles in similar ways I guess.

if you think this is an insult to men, go without using a toilet for a few days and see how well your physical well being, stress and home sanity ends up.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I suspect the person choosing for that day wasn't thinking along those lines though.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 days ago

agreed, twas a joke

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

We are but cogs for the great machine.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 week ago

the world is only as free as it’s most enslaved.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

For one brief moment those women were truly and 100% free. But then they re-entered the US and their freedom shrank by 90%.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 week ago

Being stripped away by the guy who owns the rocket.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago

Not to mention the irony of riding in the most phallic of all the rockets ever made

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Anyone knows the name of the background painting? I like it.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago (1 children)

i don’t know im sorry but the original post i stole from @momsforohio on instagram. godspeed on your search should you choose to continue it!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Looks to be this. Can't find high res.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

yayyy glad you found it!

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Ooh, they're sending women to space! ...Rich women only. 10 minutes only. And of course they're still not allowed to actually do anything spacey or sciencey during this space mission, hoh hoh ho, that'd be entirely too much.

It may count as feminism, just not in our universe. Here, it most assuredly doesn't!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Rich women only

This is the important part. There would be some value in it if it were ordinary people getting to go to space.

hoh hoh ho

Delightfully devilish, Seymour!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

And on top of it all, the rocket is shaped like a penis

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

Don't forget they all had their makeup and hair done.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

was a total turn off. fugly bezos with his wobbly fat arms greeting the plastic lady gettinf out of his dick statue. funniest shit were those few minutes in space where you could see the most fake ass women dangle around in zero gravity. L`Oreal must have liked it. A disgrace for women and mankind. also fuck ophra winfrey, that ray of sunshine was talking so much useless crap. before take off "ah im calmest person on earth becoz me so strong" and when rocket took off ppl needed to hold her pants so she wont faint. the american dream: you think you can something - but cant.

load more comments
view more: next ›