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[–] caboose2006@lemmy.world 88 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

He knew the consequences, he did it anyway. Legend.

[–] LMurch@thelemmy.club 14 points 17 hours ago (3 children)

He should get punished. Doesn't mean it was the wrong thing to do.

[–] Riverside@reddthat.com 0 points 1 hour ago

Punching a Nazi should always be determined in self-defense.

[–] null@lemmy.org 13 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

It's a textbook example of chaotic good. He broke the rules to do the morally good thing.

[–] MajorasTerribleFate@lemmy.zip 9 points 13 hours ago

Neutral Good considers the rules and tends to acknowledge owledge the rules are usually good, but sometimes should be bent or broken. Chaotic Good ranges from "Fuck the rules!" to "Any rule that oppresses the people is bullshit" to "The rules are sometimes okay, I guess, but I'm gonna ignore them without remorse when they make no sense." Minding that the Good component means they tend not to break rules for self-gain and/or at the expense of decent people.

[–] PhoenixDog@lemmy.world 4 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Yup, I think it's appropriate. He punched someone at school. Actions have consequences no matter the reason behind it. I got suspended for a day because a bully had his hands around my throat and I cold cocked him in the side of the head.

It's what makes us better human beings than the right. We are perfectly okay with holding people we agree with accountable for their actions. I hope this kid has a great two day vacation from school. Sleep in and put your feet up, kid.

[–] graycloud@leminal.space 20 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

You absolutely should not have been punished for defending yourself in that situation; strangulation is attempt at murder. Did anything happen to the other kid?

[–] PhoenixDog@lemmy.world 8 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago) (1 children)

Nope. Because schools and 'zero tolerance' policies protect abusers, not victims. by design. It's easier to punish the person lashing out and throwing punches vs someone deliberately trying to get you to kill yourself.

Just like we're seeing here in 2026 when my incident happened in 2003. I'm more pissed he didn't get anything rather than I got something. I happily took the suspension. I owned that with pride. It fell on a Friday so I had a 3 day weekend. My mom went into the school and tore the administration several new assholes. Fortunately after that I wasn't abused by him or anyone anymore other than faint insults like being called a 'fa**ot' by 6 dudes who were pants fabric away from touching dicks while I walked down the road holding hands with my new girlfriend.

I'm in my late 30s now. I've been married for 8 years and have two wonderful girlfriends in a poly relationship. He's divorced and barely gets to see his kids last I heard from friends back in my hometown. A quick Facebook search shows her with a new last name an kids with the new guy. So regardless of the past, I guess I won the life lottery.

[–] graycloud@leminal.space 0 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago) (1 children)

You seem to speculate that your bullies were jealous of you because you are more successful with women than they are, or because they were secretly gay. In my case, we had very little parental supervision and everyone bullied one another to some degree. We used to play a game of tag where the person who got caught by 'it' would be tied to a tree and lashed with a switch, and the person tied to a tree had to escape in order to become 'it.'

edit: So, this is supposed to be a cautonary tale against not watching your kids, not "admitting to bullying people smarter than me." All kids in my grade played this game together. Now that I know what kind of social space I am in, I will no longer be sharing any personal information with this crowd. Thanks for letting me know that you're nuts, or at least a nonzero number of you.

[–] PhoenixDog@lemmy.world -3 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago) (1 children)

I love how you admitted all of that, while I never suggested any of it. I never assumed anyone was 'secretly gay'. My point was my bullies were incredibly stupid people. They used basic insults because they thought it was funny regardless of the context. They were 6 dudes in close proximity calling a single man holding hands with a girl a 'fa**ot'. Not to mention I came out queer a few years ago so whatever you want to say about that won't make a lick of difference to me.

It's the intellectual significance, and lack thereof with the bullies. They're so stupid they just sling words to try to get a rise, not aware of the circumstance around it. No one with any critical thinking or intelligent thought would call a man with a woman on his arm a 'fa**ot' while the people slinging it are balls deep with other guys in a group huddle.

It's amazing how much you just admitted to being just that. A remarkably illiterate idiot who used to bully people smarter than you because you were a dumb insecure idiot.

[–] graycloud@leminal.space 1 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

What?

I didn't bully people smarter than me, I'm saying this is a game we all played.

... man, whatever. I'm sorry that happened.