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Staggering number of children starting school not toilet trained, study finds
(www.independent.co.uk)
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I actually agree with you. My twin nephews are high functioning though. However, their outbursts, communication skills and stuff are just quite delayed. Their math is absolutely amazing though. When they were around 6 they knew their times table up to 13. I taught them quite a lot myself with long division, fractions, 2D-3D formulas of shapes and a few formulas I thought were fun like the sum of natural numbers. All by 8.
The bathroom thing is hilarious because the eldest learned later than the youngest but the youngest just doesn't understand he needs to go until it's an ABSOLUTE EMERGENCY. lol, so many close calls and umm ... "accidents". I also had to teach their parents that they shouldn't give them a full glass of water every night because they seem to consistently wet the bed.
I hate judging parents, so what you're hearing is a total outburst of 3-5 years of living with them and just getting so exhausted -- like I'm a single guy living in London and every week would be something new to me. I literally put so much time and money because I saw the parents not putting the required effort for these types of kids ....
(sorry more ranting ...)
They both love watching K-Dramas (as they should). However, they would watch it till like 2-3am on a Friday. Weekends they would sleep in until 2-3pm. They used to keep the kids up until 1am-2am because "they" were up. After I got there, they finally put the kids to sleep at a reasonable hour like 9pm. However, on Saturday morning the kids would be up at 7am and they would just sleep in. My brother would wake up fix the kids some breakfast and then hand the kids an iPad and then go back to sleep himself. Bear in mind he doesn't wake up until afternoon, so the kids would have an iPad for 6 hours or so before the day started for them. There's a lot more where the mum was working or gaming in her room all day (my own mum and me would be taking care of the kids) ... she would leave the room to say "goodnight" to the kids and then she would go back to her room. My brother would do the same. I don't mean to demean their jobs but I don't think any job requires you to stay at your computer THAT long and I'm a programmer.
Also my brother wouldn't buy the kids "books" because they don't know how to read yet. They didn't understand the concept of reading to your kids until I did it and they felt embarrassed.
Honestly, parenting really isn't easy. I feel as though it was simpler in my parents generation because it feels like every parent needs to monitor their kids far more now. Also, if it was easy, I wouldn't be helping this much to get them out. I still love them all (even the parents I'm trashing) and I wouldn't have traded this experience for anything. Seeing the kids learn and pick up things and the bond they have with me is priceless.