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I'm a semi-private individual. In that, I will speak of things I am comfortable talking about by my own filtering. Once I let it out and speak of it, it could very well mean that I was comfortable posting that and almost nothing can make me feel guilt or embarrassment of saying it.

One thing I have observed people slipping on is that, people tend to have no filter. So they go on and on and on about themselves, not having a sense of the mind to think that someone out there, anywhere, could be documenting them. Sadly, there are those people that are out there.

On one hand, someone just wants to communicate, project themselves, let others know who they are. On another hand, they won't know whether or not they're being documented so that in turn, are re-broadcast to another community or someone else who is gonna just have a field day with some aspects of what you spoke about that could later crop up when you least expect it.

Often times you'll hear people say that they don't care what others think. It's funny how most of the time that is uttered and it is challenged, people end up folding pretty fast at times. It implies that yes, you do to a degree, care about what people think of what you've said.

So this is why I'm semi-private. If I have the thought of 'I don't think I'm that comfortable talking about this' then it is simply not spoken of. I think some people need to occasionally think that way.

There is some truth to the unwritten rule of the internet where, you shouldn't gush too much about all aspects of your life. Reserve that for online journals or blogs.

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[–] ICastFist@programming.dev 3 points 1 day ago

I end up being quite open, if I'm being honest. There are many things that I don't expose about myself online, but I wouldn't be surprised if someone could make an accurate, partial profile of what kind of person I am based only on my lemmy posts, plus a close approximation of where I live.