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[–] JoeBigelow@lemmy.ca 8 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

I have had my share of struggles and hardship, definitely not the worst anyone's had it, but enough to empathize I think. I lived in a camper for 5 years, was lucky to have that tbh. Shit jobs, shit pay, no respect. I live in the boonies so I work with all these guys. I'm a white straight guy too, so I pass, and I get to sit with them while they share their terrible opinions.

I guess what I mean to say is that somehow the exact experiences that are turning these man children into hateful far right weirdos have happened to me. Somehow I went hard to the left instead. I wasn't a "radical" before I moved out here, it's a response to the last 10 years mostly. Was it because I was raised differently? Probably, my mother is one of the most compassionate people I've known, and selfishness was 'punished' when I was young. Was it the psychedelics? Also probably. There are lots of other experiences that I know most of these guys haven't had that helped me be a better person, travel, volunteer work I had to do, I'm sure I am forgetting a lot. But what helps me understand also makes it more difficult to excuse. A lot of these guys have had every opportunity I have, some a lot more. It's difficult to listen to somebody that has had a chance at promotion complain about their pay, for an analogy that comes from reality. When I also know so many other groups of people are flat denied that opportunity. They don't have solidarity because they are selfish. I think that's what it boils down to.

Terminate Stoned Sunday ramble/

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world -3 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago) (3 children)

did it ever occur to you other people aren't you? that maybe other people's issues aren't your issues, or that it's not about you and your struggles?

all you are saying is 'i had bad expereinces and i turned out this sway, therefore anyone who turned out different is wrong and bad' your post is one long circle jerk about how great you are for being a leftist and if others had bad experiences and aren't leftists they shitty people.

and self aggrandizing yourself only to shame others is precisely the fucking problem. 'be like me or fuck you' isn't how you win people over to your side.

[–] RampantParanoia2365@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

Did it ever occur to you that the other way is objectively corrupt and immoral? It's not even unspoken immorality anymore. It's just plain old comic book levels of evil. We just blew up another fishing boat, because they're brown. It is pure unabashed racist villainous behavior.

So yeah. He did say that. So what?

[–] tym@lemmy.world 0 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Your comment is the most helpul unhelpful reply I've ever seen. The fact that you took their pondering as a clan challenge says way more about you than anything else. Now, whether you realize how insecure you are and how your reaction proves it... well I won't hold my breath on that one.

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 0 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

I'm not a part of any clan dude. They objective said anyone who isn't like them is 'selfish' while pontificating about how glorious their suffering was because it lead to their leftist. They are treating their politics as if it's religion.

weird how all my right wing family are the least selfish people i know... and weird how most of my leftist friends are often self absorbed jerks who think of nobody but themselves.