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‘R-tarded’ is a slur, and I’m sick of otherwise “liberal” people going along with the right’s move to renormalize it (lemmy.world)

submitted 2 days ago by andros_rex@lemmy.world to c/unpopularopinion@lemmy.world

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There’s a clear campaign against the mentally ill with the global rise of fascism. Lots of it shows up in anti homeless rhetoric, but you can see it in the MAHA and anti vaccination movements.

There’s no reason to use the word “r-tarded” to describe someone. As someone who’s worked with the intellectually challenged, it’s an insult to them to compare them with people who are willfully ignorant.

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[–] 5190tent@lemmy.world 2 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

I never really understood the difference between insults and slurs. Somebody said that slurs target groups of people and imply that just being in the group is bad. That explanation works for ethnic/racial slurs or the ones regarding gender/sexualities.

But to me "retarded" is not specifically tied to a group. It's not mainly used for people who are disabled or neurodivergent for example. As far as I'm concerned it's the same as calling someone a moron or incredibly stupid.

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 1 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

it's historical and cultural context.

hence why words that were once common place, become seen as heinous.

but it's not like words are the only thing for which this is true. just look at say, attitudes towards sex.

and the moralists about sex/words will argue that everyone else should do/believe what they do, or they are bad people.