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There’s a clear campaign against the mentally ill with the global rise of fascism. Lots of it shows up in anti homeless rhetoric, but you can see it in the MAHA and anti vaccination movements.

There’s no reason to use the word “r-tarded” to describe someone. As someone who’s worked with the intellectually challenged, it’s an insult to them to compare them with people who are willfully ignorant.

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[–] phoenixz@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Not at all

My brother has a mental disability. Not his fault, doctors fucked up ab operation when he was a baby and he came out severely damaged. He has the intellectual level do about a 13 year old, but he mostly lives independently, he got his drivers license in a country where many people with full brain capacities cannot. Doctors told my mom after the operation to just dump him in some institution, because he'd never even talk. She told them to go fuck themselves.

I'm fucking proud of him (and my mom), because with severe limitations he really got himself ahead. I see him as a fucking genius.

Then there are retards like Elon musk who do have a full brain with full abilities but somehow fail to even surpass what my brother wasn't supposed to be able to do, yet by brother does it, these people do

I call people removed when they are supposed to be better but just chose to be lazy or not caring or just behave removed.

Is an insult against people who are supposed to be smart but behave like they have a mental disability, and I stand by that.

If you feel offended, the that is on you.

[–] BodePlotHole@lemmy.world 2 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago)

This is my stance on the word.

We use it regularly in engineering for this exact definition. Mentally disabled people typically operate in the best version of themselves nearly all the time (minus bad days, we all have em)

But people who have the potential to operate at their full capacity but choose not to are the very definition of the word.

I will definitely think it while standing in line behind someone for 15 minutes at a coffee shop who don't decide to even look at the menu until the cashier gets to them.

But I still don't say it, as intention and perception are competely unrelated.

I'd also add "you dumb fucker" hits about the same, without the fallout of "the R word"

I guess that's the part about people and taboo words I don't understand. A little fun flex in vocabulary can transmit the same sentiment without impacting others.

Tactical strike, not full fallout.

[–] remon@ani.social 3 points 1 day ago

I call people removed

Is lemmy.ca doing the same censorship billshit as .ml? SMH ...