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My partner is concerned that I'm going to suddenly start being attracted to men once I start on the trans-mission fluid. Apparently she keeps reading Reddit posts about people who's sexual orientation changes after they start hormones. How common is this? I can't personally think of a word in which I would be attracted to men. Honestly it kinda crosses me out. I did go through a period where I decided to see if I was bisexual and slept with a couple of dudes, but I found the experience really off-putting. Have any of you ladies experienced a switch in sexual orientation? If so, from what to what?

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My relationships with women have always been intensely sexual. I fall firmly in the category of hypersexual I'm also an extremely tactile person generally. As far as men go I only really find them attractive if they are almost indistinguishable from women in appearance and even then I'm pretty sure the smell would put me off. Im pretty sure the smell thing is hormonal though, because pregnant women drive me absolutely insane, but only if I'm in the same room as them. Otherwise there's no difference in attractiveness.

As far as men go, I just don't experience any attraction outside of a few femboys. But even then the smell isn't right.