Look man if I can get a girl to ask me out by being a complete wackadoodle (then break up with me before Valentine’s Day, but that’s beside the point) YOU CAN DO IT TOO, I BELIVE IT YOU JUST GO FOR IT

(Damn I should really take my own advice)

[–] psud@aussie.zone 1 points 4 days ago

Some girls are attracted to weird. Unfortunately for you that doesn't map to actually liking weird

Maybe something like wanting to fix someone but being unable to

[–] janus2@lemmy.zip 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

i live in the only city in my county with three lesbian bars i have negative excuses lol

well aside from being really broke i guess

[–] cassandrafatigue@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

There aren't cities with three lesbian bars in thrm anymore. Not a thing.

[–] janus2@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

NYC has Henrietta Hudson, Cubbyhole, and Ginger's

technically only Henrietta is an official lesbian bar, but Cubbyhole and Ginger's crowds are usually ≥80% lesbians and other queer femmes in my experience

[–] cassandrafatigue@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 week ago

Okay, sure, maybe new York, if you count unofficial.

[–] someacnt@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Does not work for many of us

[–] FlihpFlorp@piefed.zip 2 points 1 week ago

True this is just my own experience and last I checked, my experience is not universal, however the point I was trying to get across is that i believe in you whatever you do (morals permitting)