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[–] otter@lemmy.dbzer0.com -3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

We all use makeup of one form or another, and it's no one else that has any right to label parts of us as "imperfections" — especially when it's generally redundant, anyhow. Negative self-talk needs no reinforcements, but damn if it isn't a booming systemic industry.

[–] kemsat@lemmy.world 21 points 2 days ago (1 children)

No, we don’t all use make up in some form or another.

[–] otter@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Oh? You go around in public naked? You don't groom yourself before engaging socially? You don't filter your speech options per the target audience?

We all modify & mask. Don't be obtuse. It's not complicated.

[–] MotoAsh@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Hey, I'm not the one that'd arrest me for going around naked!

[–] otter@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 day ago

Check your local laws, friend. Be free.

[–] Soulg@ani.social 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] bjoern_tantau@swg-empire.de 11 points 1 day ago (2 children)

@otter@lemmy.dbzer0.com was using the literary device known as "metaphor".

[–] otter@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 day ago

Whiffs of that other place, more and more. 🫠

[–] Soulg@ani.social 0 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

A bad one that I completely disagree with. Hence my post.

[–] kemsat@lemmy.world 0 points 1 day ago (1 children)

You’re being obtuse. None of that is make up.

[–] otter@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Ah, I stand corrected: it is complicated, apparently. Good luck, there,

[–] kemsat@lemmy.world -1 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

It’s not complicated, but you’re complicating it by saying clothing, grooming, filtering thought from speech are all the same as make-up.

[–] otter@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Better get to work, kiddo. You've got a hard row to hoe, it looks like.

[–] kemsat@lemmy.world 1 points 5 hours ago

I dunno what that means but it might explain your delusions.