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Trans student’s arrest for violating Florida bathroom law is thought to be a first
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The article uses she/her pronouns, which seems a reasonable choice. Any particular reason you've gone with they/them?
They is gender neutral I thought and completely valid when talking about a third person regardless of their gender.
My understanding, and I'm by no means an expert, is that they/them would be used for an unknown gender, or for someone that has chosen those as their preferred pronouns. But in this case, the article and discussion is about a woman, so I think she/her would be the preferred choice.
Using they when you aren't specifying is fine and any indication otherwise is just virtue signaling. If someone used they despite knowing I use he/him because they don't know me well, regardless of whether or not it's stated, it's not an insult.
You aren't much more virtuous for using someone's preferred gender just as you shouldn't be demonized for not knowing someone doesn't use "traditional" gender ideology.
Absolutely, and I think jumping on people for making honest mistakes doesn't help anyone, as with most things it's the intention that's key. In this particular case though, I don't think there was too much ambiguity, and she/her seems to me like the safer bet.