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update: ex dated someone w/o telling me and moved on very quickly, i don’t see her that way but it hurts (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

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so my ex kayla (20f) is someone i got back together with after she changed and stopped being a dick towards me after we broke up the first time when she was 18 and i was ~17 (i’ll be 19 this year).

now, she’s a very nice person to me, and i broke up with her because we stopped talking to each other and i therefore lost feelings for her. i didn’t use social media much let alone group chats, and she didn’t private message much.

when i could/wanted to, i’d try to message but she’d often be doing something else or already in the middle of the convo. before we broke up, it turns out she was seeing another girl without my permission or consent because “she’s poly” (we gotta let each other know before we can date someone, that was the agreement. i did it for her but she didn’t for me).

we broke up and she moved on quickly because “oh at least i have 2 other women i like” and she didn’t even have feelings for me after we dated?? (she had feelings at 18 when she was a bully, but not at 20). neither of us like each other that way, but it hurts that she found someone else so quickly, didn’t feel that way for me, and didn’t even tell me about her new gf before we broke up

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

she cheated on you.

she cheated on you with some girl, didn’t have feelings for you despite being in a relationship with you when u guys were 17 and 18 and then later at 18 and 20, all of a sudden thinks of u as just a friend, and barely talked to you??

are u sure she made any sort of effort to talk to you and that some of the stuff she said was truthful?? she cheated on u so maybe some other stuff was a lie too. sorry to be rude, but i think she purposely wasn’t talking to you to spend more time with that girl so she wouldn’t have to eventually get confronted and feel bad by talking to you.

she might be “nice”, but that was a jerk move.