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Ye Power Trippin' Bastards

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Sometimes one just wants to be able to challenge the arguments some mod made and this could be the place for that.


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What makes this worse is the obvious disrespect from Cowbee of my request to disengage. I made it very clear I didn't want to argue. These communities have absolutely no standards of behaviour for members of the in-group. Which is exactly why I don't engage with them in these communities.

Well, also the fact that I hate being constantly called a liberal for not repeating Capitalist Putin's latest botfarm talking point. Talking to these people is an exercise in keeping my calm while I am constantly insulted. No thank you.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Ignoring the points of the argument, you have to tell them to "disengage" with nothing else posted in your comment to them. I have a troll following me around every time I talk about a certain topic and the only way to get them to stop (for a brief moment) is to say "disengage." I've made it clear I don't want to talk to them anymore, multiple times, but still I have to type "disengage" every time they reply to me the same exact bad faith shit they always say.

If you don't want to deal with them altogether, you have to consider blocking them. The troll I've been dealing with has tried to egg me and others into blocking them, they celebrate each time they get blocked. So I also understand if you don't want to block them, they are miserable people who enjoy feeding on negativity. The fact trolls roam lemmy can dampen your enjoyment, it really does suck.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yep, this is correct. I couldn't just leave the implication that I'm a Trump supporter uncontested, that was slander, they nullified the disengage rule by doing so. I'm fine with not continuing a conversation people don't wish to continue, but not with people trying to use the disengage rule to hide behind personal insults towards me.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Interesting. What's the value of an explicit "disengage" compared to just not replying?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

Well for one: silence isn't disengaging sometimes, so they may keep replying.

Sometimes you'd want to add extra context before you disengage too; for this we will take action against people who break the rule (on our instance)

You can't say "Disengage! Also you're stupid." as some "last word own". If that is said then they'll have to deal the consequences; we won't do anything abt it.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

It's a courtesy to tell the other user that they shouldn't expect a response, and an extension of good-faith.