datahoarder
Who are we?
We are digital librarians. Among us are represented the various reasons to keep data -- legal requirements, competitive requirements, uncertainty of permanence of cloud services, distaste for transmitting your data externally (e.g. government or corporate espionage), cultural and familial archivists, internet collapse preppers, and people who do it themselves so they're sure it's done right. Everyone has their reasons for curating the data they have decided to keep (either forever or For A Damn Long Time). Along the way we have sought out like-minded individuals to exchange strategies, war stories, and cautionary tales of failures.
We are one. We are legion. And we're trying really hard not to forget.
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It's going to take some time. I've been there as have plenty of people who came to me for support when it happened to them.
While right now you're thinking of it in terms of loss, you can also celebrate the lightness that comes from not having the data anymore.
There's more..
What was the funniest thing you remember that was in there?
Now consider that you remember it. You don't need to check, you remember the things that made that memory funny.
So, take a deep breath, add it to the list of stupid things you've done to date that didn't kill you and then go and drink a glass of water and go for a walk.
This too will pass.
For years after my son’s suicide I backed up our texts. From one daily android update to the next, phone after phone. I always bought a phone that I knew I could root so I could ensure the ability to restore these backups. Then I got careless during one rom flash and lost them. It was a huge weight lifted when that happened. I realized that I had never once gone and reread any of them since the week after his death. And the constant backing up caused so much stress.