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[–] BassTurd@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Absolutely. I've written multiple paragraph responses, and then I realize I may have to argue that or just engage more than I'm willing to at that time and just delete it. I've got more important things to do than engage in Internet discourse.

[–] Seralth@piefed.seralth.com 3 points 17 hours ago

I'll do this post it then disable inbox notifications.

I've looked at my inbox maybe twice in the last year.

I post then move the fuck on, anyone replying to me only gets a reply if k accidentally stumble back on the same comment later.

Everyone else can pound sand. Replying is almost never worth it

[–] krashmo@lemmy.world 7 points 23 hours ago

More often this realization comes when I see the reply notification. It's a "wow, I actually don't want to participate in that discussion" reaction.