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So basically yesterday I managed to meet with a few queer/trans people in my city and the next day comes and suddenly the group got quiet. No mention of making another one or anything! Me and me partner were the youngest there and maybe it's the stigma of the relationship or just my age. I know it's one meetup but people judge harshly and I blame myself for not being enough of a person to be interesting. I will try again but this time I won't be pushy :3 Mood: confused

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[–] Aneb@lemmy.world 3 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Did you at least have gun when you were hanging out? I feel like I'm in the same boat. My groups always go quiet after we hang. I haven't hung out with anybody in a almost year, like another comment said: be pushy. You might get critical feedback but at least you know what friendships you're looking for.

[–] Phnelope@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

My own self says yes maybe that's just how they work, next week I may be a bit pushy and who knows

[–] Aneb@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Also lmao I just reread my comment. Sorry for the confusion. Did you have fun? Not did you bring a gun to the party lol.

[–] Phnelope@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 weeks ago

I sure did :3 could have been worse