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Naw dawg, when I do a good thing I want people to notice. Not so that I get a reward or social credit for doing something nice. Fuck that. I want to normalize doing nice things. I want people to talk about the nice thing I did, then when they have a chance to do something nice they remember me and pass it forward. I want someone else to benefit from my kindness and for that act of kindness to propagate forward.
Exactly.
Saw a couple of kids recently gather some litter off the ground and throw it away.
Myself and a few other people noticed and gave those kids major props.
We need to encourage civility for everyone's sake.
Every sentence there is about you making yourself feel good.
None if it, is about how the other people feel.
No, it's about them wanting other people to do good things, and trying to encourage that by example. And I think they have a point - it's hard to model a behavior when nobody is aware of it, and it's hard to normalize a behavior nobody talks about
'be like me so i feel good about myself'
that's egotism.
these behaviors are already normal and normalized the fact you think they aren't is so bizarre. people are nice to each other all the time, except on lemmy.
just because you don't see shit doesn't mean it doesn't exist. but true that internet weirdos seem to think the only thing that does exist is the doomerism oppression of the world they constantly upvote and cultivate.
There is no such thing as a selfless good deed. We're social animals. We feel GOOD when people around us feel GOOD. We're intelligent animals. We notice this pattern and conclude that if we make another person feel good, WE'LL feel good too. This is virtuous.
Sharing good deeds make them feel NORMAL and people like to follow the standards for normal behaviour to fit in. This creates a virtuous circle.
Sure some people only do a good deed to advertise it because they'll get more capital out of it than the cost of the deed. But that's not what's happening here. I don't know the store or the owner, they get nothing from me.